My husband thinks I am being silly and taking it too seriously, but I'm honestly sick of this!
I am fairly small, 118 lbs, 5'3" and I have two children ages 5 and 2. I have a small bit of a pooch, nothing big to me really, I feel I just look bloated constantly.
I swear, anytime I go out to the grocery store or anywhere period, at least one person stops me and asks me "how far along are you?" I reply with the same answer each time "I'm not pregnant", and then a lot of them have said, "oh you still have your baby fat"... sometimes I wanna rip their heads off.
I could understand someone asking me this if I was huge and unmistakingly pregnant, but to have a little pooch on my thin figure, some people need to just mind their damn business, it is very offensive. I am already self conscious of my body because my pregnancies messed up my stomach (my belly button never went back in and my belly is "saggy" and wrinkly).
Would this offend you too? What would you do in this situation?
This is what I look like now
This is when I actually was pregnant with my now 2 year old (36 weeks)