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sooo pretty much just waiting for dh to die :(

Anonymous
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Fucking ridiculous.
Dh had a stroke a yr ago feb. He only took meds for the first month, stopped taking them when he ran out. Still smokes like a chimney and drinks like a fish. Hes been having pains and issues....whatever. obviously he doesnt give a shit about his family....
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 13, 2013 at 9:56 PM
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jan. 13, 2013 at 9:58 PM
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WHAT????

YOU are waiting for your DH to die...........geezzzzzzzz.......I had to read that again

Have him admitted for a 72 hour psych hold at the hospital

Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Ruby Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 9:59 PM

I'm sorry.  Has he been to counseling?  Do you have life insurance on him?

I'd suggest you going.  If he won't go with you, go alone.  Getting into therapy now can help you deal with the complicated emotions, try to understand his point of view, and prepare for the worst should it occur.

hip2it
by Silver Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:00 PM

Going through the exact same thing with my dad. I'm sorry.

Stacey2506
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:00 PM

Sometimes you just can't help people who won't get help. I'm sorry.

glycerinej
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:01 PM
That is sad...
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:01 PM
My mother is pretty much bed ridden at 59 with COPD and continues to smoke. All I can do is love her while she's still here. Yes it sux. Sorry.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:02 PM
He wont go to the dr. I made 4 app for him after the stroke and he just wouldnt go. Hes not mental, hes just a selfish asshole.
And actually he had two strokes...the second one was three weeks later, only wasnt very severe, but mildly noticeable. Idk.

Quoting Sassy762:

WHAT????

YOU are waiting for your DH to die...........geezzzzzzzz.......I had to read that again

Have him admitted for a 72 hour psych hold at the hospital

haydsmom2007
by Gold Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:03 PM

I'm sorry that must be a shitty feeling.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:04 PM
My bio mom was diahnosed with emphasema after an accident a few months ago. She cant walk up stairs without huffing and puffin, and she still smokes over a pack a day.

Quoting Anonymous:

My mother is pretty much bed ridden at 59 with COPD and continues to smoke. All I can do is love her while she's still here. Yes it sux. Sorry.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:04 PM
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Quoting Sassy762:

WHAT????

YOU are waiting for your DH to die...........geezzzzzzzz.......I had to read that again

Have him admitted for a 72 hour psych hold at the hospital


Intervention at least but yeah he needs to go somewhere and get help ASAP!

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