so my son is gay. he told the whole world on facebook. that is how me and his step dad found out. I'm not upset about the gay part to be honest i don't understand it he has always had real pretty girlfriends. so how could he be just gay and not bi? I'm not sure. how do i handle this? my family and his dads family are very anti gay. in fact when i placed my birth-son with a gay couple two men they did not speak to me for 5 years. his older sister is not handling very well. she will not even speak to him right now. not because he is gay but because of how he came out. his bio dad is very pissed about it saying its all my fault. saying its how i raised him. ( i have raisedmy kids to love everyone no matter what). half of his friends parents called and said they could no longer be friends. we do live in a very small town a very religious town. i'm not sure how to help him there is a lotof negative heading towards him and he is only 15. how do i help him? how do i keep him safe? how is he sure at such a young age? how do i deal with his bio dad? how do i deal with the family on all sides? how do i get him and his sister to talk once more. how do i make this not a war zone of words for him? how do i keep him safe from all the bad that will come his way? how do we as a family deal with this? please don't be nasty if you are going to replay. I'm only looking for help and answers.