The problem is the kids are happy!!! He provides for them and loves them. Growing up without a dad I know I'd rather have the life my kids have so I guess what I'm saying is even if he doesn't change I wouldn't leave, this is the best for my kids and I will do what makes them happy but my question is should I bother confronting him again about the issue. Maybe if I knew he didn't love me itd be easier to not expect it anymore and is stop being hurt that he didn't show it.
I told him how I felt and he said nothing then I told him again and he laughed and said "your crazy" when I said I could get all dolled up or wear the same pj for 3 days he wouldn't notice and he said "you should be getting dressed up for yourself" wtf?!?! He woke up in a mood and We got into it. He told me I'm a bitch and I told him he make me this way all I want is to have love in my marriage and he said you'll never find it always being such a bitch so I started crying and he told me to stop throwing myself a pity party.... He makes me soo angry. An I doomed to end up like my mom and never happy