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*update* I accidently blabbed *abortion, christian related*

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I was very upset about everything so I went over to see the pastors wife. She said she did not tell my friend about our conversation, just that she offered her support and prayers if she needed them because she noticed that she had missed a few bible studies and teas. She said she told her that if there was anything going on, her office is always open to her.

She told me that she thought my friend had miscarried, but after our discussion she guessed that it was my friend I had supported.

I am honestly torn. I just wish my friend would talk to me and tell me exactly what was said.


A few months ago my best friend had an abortion. I understood her reasons, but pleaded with her to speak with our pastors wife to see if we could come up with an alternative. She refused because she was afraid of the pastors wife judging her. She went through with the abortion and I not only loaned her money towards it and took her, but lied to her family about everything and let her recover at my home.
I feel like I am an accomplice in a murder. Abortion goes against everything I believe in. I love my friend, but I hate what she did.
Yesterday after service I pulled aside the pastors wife and explained what I did and how I felt. I didn't reveal my friends name or any identifying info, but somehow she guessed and called my friend last night. My friend called me and told she never wants to see me again, and I am no longer her kids godmom. I tried to explain what I said and why I spoke to the pastors wife. But she wouldn't listen.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2013 at 9:07 AM
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by Anonymous 85 on Jan. 15, 2013 at 11:06 PM
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Let me get this straight.... 1) you helped her PAY for her abortion. 2) you DROVE her to the facility to have the abortion. 3) you LIED to her family. 4) you BETRAYED her trust 5) you GOSSIPED to the pastors wife about it. And you say you're against abortion? And now you want your friend to tell you what the pastors wife told her? You are a pathetic excuse for a Friend. With friends like you, who needs enemies?
by Anonymous 86 on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:03 AM

Sounds like a typical gossipy church group :( exactly why I don't attend! You should have kept quiet and the pastors wife was soooo out of place to call your now ex friend. Wow...

by Platinum Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:12 AM


Quoting momoftwoboys12:

I love how most ppl on here are like "op it's ur fault I'm glad she cut you out" the friend knew op beliefs and made her feel obligated to be a friend and help. Op ur a good friend in wanting to make sure if she was going to abort she didn't harm herself. And the pastors wife is the one in the wrong. How can she have support groups and invite women to talk to her in confidence only to betray these women. Who knows how many other times the pastors wife has done something like this. Hopefully ur friend comes around and if not she wasn't a good friend to begin with

  I AGREE, A Great Friend, may talk me into things.

 I may do it, because- I think, I am helping.

   Her conversation, should have STOPED, with the "Preachers Wife".

    I asked her some questions but have not seen them, wish OP would come back and say "Something?".


by Anonymous 87 on Jan. 16, 2013 at 7:22 AM
Great to be Catholic. Hide behind a screen, and spill your dirty secrets.
by Anonymous 88 on Jan. 16, 2013 at 7:33 AM
This is why I hate religion. The woman could not to turn to the people she prays with for help and understanding because she would be judged. She couldnt even trust her best friend. Smdh.
by Anonymous 49 on Jan. 16, 2013 at 11:36 AM
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