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Pornography and its effects

Anonymous
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I just read an article in another group written by a young man who has been seemingly irreversibly damaged by hardcore porn.
He was viewing "kinky" porn from childhood. He stated he always needed something more depraved to get off as time went on. And once he was old enough for real sexual encounters, he had problems performing without the aid of porn or intoxication.

This made me think, I wouldn't be surprised if this is a fairly common issue among young men raised in the digital age with such ready access to this type of porn. Gone are the days when young boys stole their Fathers Playboys. Now their introduction into the world of sex is often, shamefully depraved.

The point of my post is, I wonder how common this experience is amongst women.
I will admit I myself have watches some pretty depraved stuff since I was about 12. Which no doubt contributed to my precocious promiscuity. I was having sex at 13.
I was pregnant at 15.

And a more pressing issue, the type of porn I watched was fairly specific. And I find myself unable to obtain an orgasm without some amount of fantasy about those images.

How many of you have experienced this? How old were you when you saw your first porn? What type was it? Did it bother you?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:57 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:59 AM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:09 PM
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ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:12 PM

I was probably about 9 the first time. I have been an almost daily viewer since 19, and no issues. I started with soft stuff (still like some soft stuff). By 16 I was watching bondage style. I am a switch in real life with BDSM (but do not need it, I am fine with "normal sex"). Porn has never bothered me as sex is a part of life.

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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:13 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:17 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:18 PM
I don't consider bondage style to be hardcore. Or depraved.
I'm referring to the really disturbing hardcore torture type porns.


Quoting ColleenF30:

I was probably about 9 the first time. I have been an almost daily viewer since 19, and no issues. I started with soft stuff (still like some soft stuff). By 16 I was watching bondage style. I am a switch in real life with BDSM (but do not need it, I am fine with "normal sex"). Porn has never bothered me as sex is a part of life.


ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:28 PM

You really think I admit to everything on here...I pretty much stop short of scat, watersports, and gore.

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't consider bondage style to be hardcore. Or depraved.
I'm referring to the really disturbing hardcore torture type porns.


Quoting ColleenF30:

I was probably about 9 the first time. I have been an almost daily viewer since 19, and no issues. I started with soft stuff (still like some soft stuff). By 16 I was watching bondage style. I am a switch in real life with BDSM (but do not need it, I am fine with "normal sex"). Porn has never bothered me as sex is a part of life.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:29 PM

I first discovered my dad's stash of lesbian porn when I was 12 or 13. I was so scared!! I started watching and found out I liked it. I figured out I was, in fact, a lesbian. I'm 28 now and am still a lesbian. I don't have to think of porn to orgasm, but I'm sure if I pretended to be straight and had sex with men, I would fantasize about women.

thetrollcat
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:31 PM

i like cat porn

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:32 PM
Haha well I kind of expected a lot of anon so since you were brave enough to use your SN, yeah I figured you admitted to it all.

So let me get a little more personal. Can you climax "in the moment" so to speak, or do your orgasms involve at least a small amount of images from porn?


Quoting ColleenF30:

You really think I admit to everything on here...I pretty much stop short of scat, watersports, and gore.


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't consider bondage style to be hardcore. Or depraved.

I'm referring to the really disturbing hardcore torture type porns.





Quoting ColleenF30:

I was probably about 9 the first time. I have been an almost daily viewer since 19, and no issues. I started with soft stuff (still like some soft stuff). By 16 I was watching bondage style. I am a switch in real life with BDSM (but do not need it, I am fine with "normal sex"). Porn has never bothered me as sex is a part of life.





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