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Sexually selfish SO

Anonymous
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Would you stay with a man who provided for your family, was a good dad, but was completely sexually selfish?

He only worries about his needs, no foreplay other than "wanna give me a bj?"

If you would stay how would you deal?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:11 PM
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jbirdsladie27
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:12 PM
Fuck no!!!!! I have needs too!!!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:12 PM
I would talk to him about it. Tell him I'm sexually unsatisfied.
Hot_Badonkadonk
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:14 PM

 Counseling? Maybe he doesn't understand how much of a big deal it is...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:15 PM
That's "nagging".


Quoting Anonymous:

I would talk to him about it. Tell him I'm sexually unsatisfied.

Hyman
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:15 PM
I went through this too. I talked to my Dh and I actually cried but it was bc I felt so emotional about it. I did alot of taking and telling him how I felt.

It worked. I believe sometimes Dh just won't know unless I tell him ...
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:15 PM

No way! You can keep him!

Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:16 PM
Just how well is he providing?
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mich.el.le
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:16 PM
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Yes, I would stay. I would be frank with him and tell him if he didn't start thinking of someone other than himself he'd be spending his nights with his mistress Aveeno.

calvinsmommy18
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:17 PM
No thanks.
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ElitestJen
by Ruby Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:17 PM

Well....I don't know.  It's been my experience that men "get off" on satisfying women.  It's a bragging right and strokes their egos. 

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