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He did this right in front of dh EDIT

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
About 2 years ago me and dh were headed for divorce.we both went on to see other people but decided to try and work on our marriage so things are great with us now.

The guy I was seeing works as a highway patrol officer and was a pretty good guy.when things ended he wasn't happy and we never spoke again.

DH gets involved in a nasty car pile up on the highway heading home.thinking something is seriously wrong I get off work and head to the er where he is.

Apparently the er is sooo packed that most of patients waiting to be seen are out in the lobby area.dh arm is broken so me,DH,his niece and brother are just sitting around with everyone else.

All of a sudden some whispers in my ear "all that fucking we did paid off".I turned around and it was my old guy.I wasn't rude but shocked by what he said.he gave me a hug and pushed his card down my shirt and kissed me on the cheek.

Walking out he wink at dh and all hell broke loose.dh is pissed because he claims I didn't do anything to prevent what happened while his family sat and watched.ummm we are in a crowded hospital and what was I supposed to do? Smack the guy and get arrested? Assault on an officer,a charge I will not make.

If you were in this situation what would you have done?

EDIT:
Now he sent me friend request on fb.I haven't accepted and dh is like i should so I can have more evidence against him,don't know what to do.I don't want to just let this go after what he did.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2013 at 5:30 PM
Replies (21-30):
momto3infl
by Gold Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:35 PM

 I would have laughed.

emeraldangel2.0
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:37 PM


Quoting Des10ed2b:

in the shock of the moment, you are never sure what to do! your husband is just irritated because it was inappropriate. but it wasnt YOU that was inapproppriate, it was this other guy. he just needs somewhere to voice his frustration and you are the closest he can get. 

this


Melissa_4
by Ruby Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:38 PM

Reported him to his sargent.  That was not cool.

isa1026
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:43 PM

fille harrassment charges, he has no right to say or do any of that. That its what Iwould do, but then again I'm not nice to any of my exes.

LizzieAnnesMom
by ☆Mrs.Winchester☆ on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:44 PM

Call his superior and let them know what he did.

calvinsmommy18
by Gold Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:44 PM

 report the incident to the guys supervisor?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:46 PM

big deal, let it go. both of you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:48 PM
Why should she "let it go?"


Quoting Anonymous:

big deal, let it go. both of you.


wumbo
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:49 PM

What do you mean "get in trouble?" A cop can't arrest you or write a ticket because you ignore his advances. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I got confused honestly and didn't want to get in trouble.I was upset that it happened but like I said I was confused and shocked


Quoting Mommytorn:

Umm yeah you know that's sexual harassment right? I would go down to his station and file charges..if a man EVER put his hands on me (much less shoved something in my bra) I would file sexual harassment charges in a SECOND!!! Especially if he did it in front of my hubby or children that is sooooo disrespectful!!..by not making a big deal about it you are basically telling your husband that you think it's ok


Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:57 PM

she? you mean you? what really happened? your former lover made an asshole move in front of your husband. it's not like you did it. he obviously doesn't have complete trust in you or you both would have been able to be like...oh man, that guy is an asshole, isn't he? we're lucky we moved past that! instead, you're making a big deal out of nothing. you haven't seen him since you ended it, you more than likely won't see him again anytime soon.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why should she "let it go?"


Quoting Anonymous:

big deal, let it go. both of you.



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