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No More Kids?

Anonymous
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What if you want more children and your SO does not? When previously you had agreed on more. if you bring it up he is very angry about discussing it. What do you say to him?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:05 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:06 PM
B u m p
GrimmLotus
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:07 PM

IDK, He didn't want any. I already had 2 when we met, but after a while he changed his mind so we had one, wasn't the boy we had hoped for. He wants to try again, I am done!!.

Venae
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:08 PM

You tell him - I would not force you to become a parent - just like I would hope you wouldn't force sex on me to make me pregnant.  Trust me that I will not "accidentally" get pregnant while you make your appointment for a vasectomy.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:09 PM

I would poke holes in the condoms. Or quit taking my pill.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:11 PM
Wedont use BC not thati would do that anyways. He always pulls out.

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I would poke holes in the condoms. Or quit taking my pill.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:13 PM

Hmm then I would wrap my legs around him tighter when he tries to pull out and pretend I am almost there so he needs to stay in.

Quoting Anonymous:

Wedont use BC not thati would do that anyways. He always pulls out.

Quoting Anonymous:

I would poke holes in the condoms. Or quit taking my pill.


mrstompkins
by Bronze Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:13 PM

We have the opposite problem here :( dh wants another and I am so done!

kelly617
by Ruby Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:33 PM

Sit down and have a discussion with him about what has changed his mind.

3mommyandwifey
by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 12:27 AM
I don't want anymore and hubby does. And when he tells me he is gonna make me I laugh. We have 3 and that's plenty. I have the iud.
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banana-bear
by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 12:29 AM
Compromise and discuss like mature adults. If one did not want anymore kids, then no more kids should be made.
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