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If you found out your son was cheating on his wife ...and got the OTHER woman pregnant..

Anonymous
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Would you tell his wife/daughter in law

OR

mind your own business ?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:20 PM
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laranadtony
by Ruby Member on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:21 PM
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I would blackmail him into telling her.

SalemWitchChild
by Blessed be on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:21 PM
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I would be very disappointed in my son, and talk to him about doing the right thing. Which would involve HIM telling the DIL.

brettsmomma
by ~Tammie~ on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:22 PM
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 I would kick my sons ass and ask him where he got his morals from. I would hound him until he made things right.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:22 PM

Tell his ass to grow another pair, that won't help impregnate a woman, and tell his wife. 

armstrong7984
by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:23 PM

oh i def would say something!!!

Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Ruby Member on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:25 PM
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I think it would depend on my relationship with the DIL.

If she and I got along OK and had some trust, I might tell her.

If she and I didn't get along and she didn't trust me, but we were able to hang out, I wouldn't.  In that case, telling her might make ME the focus of her anger, and certainly my son's, and I could be cut off from the grandchildren.  And I think in a situation like that, the grandchildren will need as many stable people in their lives as possible.

If she didn't get along, didn't trust me, and never came around, I wouldn't have anything to lose and I might try, might not.  It is just so hard to say...

In any case, I would have to search my soul for what was morally right and how to try and do it in a way that would HELP those involved, not just cause hurt and leave them stranded.

What I can say for certain is that my son would hear no end of it from me.  I would want to have a relationship with the other child, but my son would know without a doubt how deeply disappointed I was in him.  I won't blame the innocent baby, but I will hold my son accountable.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:25 PM
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I would kick my son`s ass! Then i would take him to wherever my dil was and make him fess up. I would help my dil in any way possible in whatever choice she made.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:25 PM
Definitely tell your DIL, she deserves to know!!
honeyrder
by Platinum Member on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:25 PM
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I would kick his ass first because I raised him on the gospel of birth control. Then I would drag him by his ear to tell her himself.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 15, 2013 at 7:25 PM
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That is a tough one. Well, I would probably have a few words for my son because he KNOWS how I feel about cheating. I was cheated on my his BIO and my ex husband and it messed up my head for awhile. It took me a LONG time to trust my now husband because of my past. So my son knows that I do not approve of cheating and I would say something to him if he did. I would be VERY disappointed in him and well I would be disgusted in myself and by him. Myself, I would feel like I failed my son somehow.

Now if he got her pregnant, yes I would say something to HIM about it and that he better tell his wife and work something out!!! No, I wouldn't tell her. Not my place.

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