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he shouldn't be held responsible if she chooses NOT to abort.....

Anonymous
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Women have all the say. If a father wants to keep the child, to bad so sad for him if the women decides to abort.



But if the father wants the women to have an abortion and she says no, should he still have to be responsible even though it wasn't his choice?



Yes we know they had sex and this was a possibility but my question is really more about fathers having no choice ONCE this situation occurs.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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Cooperfamily
by Ashley on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:37 PM
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I totally understand...but the father can sign over his rights to the child...
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AlwaysKISA
by Ruby Member on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:38 PM
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Yes, he should be responsible for what he'd helped create.
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KairisMama
by Emerald Member on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:38 PM
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 I agree with men being allowed to terminate rights and walk away free.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:38 PM
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O_o

No. He is responsible. It takes two to tango. If he couldn't take responsibility for a baby he should have kept it in his pants.
activitymode
by Platinum Member on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:39 PM
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Disagree.

Too many shitty men out there who already do that anyway. That would just make it easier.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:40 PM
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When a man grows a vagina he can have a choice.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:40 PM
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In oregon a parent cannot sign away rights unless there is another person willing to step up and adopt them.

Quoting Cooperfamily:

I totally understand...but the father can sign over his rights to the child...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:40 PM
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Yes he should be held responsible -- that's just how it is.  Women do have all the say here because the pregnancy is happening in their body.  It's just a consequence of sex.  Don't like it? Keep it zipped.  Simple as that. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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He does have a choice he can not stick his penis into her vagina!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Jan. 15, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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Yea he had a right, a right to put on a condom or keep it in his pants!
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