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Dirty Little Secrets

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I used to be a regular on this board and I did one of these posts about a year ago. I've just come back within the last few days and I have been dying to have the time to do this again.

What is your dirty little secret?

The worst thing about yourself that you don't tell anyone. Be honest, post anonymously if you want to. This is a place where you can vocalize your biggest fears, your deepest regrets, the hidden parts of yourself.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 15, 2013 at 11:57 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:08 AM

Go to counseling. Seek a support group. Deal with these feelings. Please do not be disgusted with yourself. You did what you felt was best at the time.

Quoting Anonymous:

I've had two abortions, and have always claimed to be pro-life. i am disgusted with myself for killing my children. i think about them everyday, and have even started telling people i have 5 children, so they are included. i think i need some help.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:10 AM

I felt that way for a long time too. My dad left, my mom never cared, every person who came into my life hurt me. But now I have been with a wonderful man for a long time. You have to learn to love yourself first. I know it's cliche, but it's true. Good luck honey.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm scared to death that no one will ever love me and I'll be alone for the rest of my life. I'm afraid that even my DS will leave me. Every important person in my life has left me. Just feels like all those people can't all be wrong, so it must be me.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:11 AM

I'd imagine it would be =( That's one of the reasons it annoys me greatly when people say that you are taking the easy way out by having an abortion. I've never had one, but I've always thought it would have to be anything BUT easy for a woman.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes, me and my husband went to a therapist shortly after I had the abortion. I feel like we both got some closure out of it. It was nice to have someone else's input on our situation. But yeah, it's just hard from time to time to think back on.

Quoting Anonymous:

So sorry to hear that! Just remember the reasons you had for your abortion. I'm sure they were good ones. Have you tried any type of therapy or support group? Even online support groups may help.


Quoting Anonymous:

I regret getting an abortion. I always wonder what my 1st child would have been like. 




LilyPondOasis
by Bronze Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:13 AM

I am so behind that I thought it was a newfangled term for BLUE BALLS! LMAO

Quoting LucyHourglass:

i've googled blue waffles before. 


2ltlmonkeyz
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:13 AM

oh lol i stole some smackers chap stick from wal mart in the 6th grade!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 19 on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:14 AM
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I'm increasingly concerned that the kids in my care will be returned to their biological parents. I want what's best for the kids. I just don't know if the parents can and will truly get their lives straight. And I love these kids. They fit right into the family. I'd much rather think of them staying here rather than going home and their parents relapsing.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:14 AM

I hope you are ready to accept the child if it is. I do not like my husbands oldest daughter, or her mother. She is a teenager and she's a little brat who lies and constantly tries to get attention, and her mother is the same way. But she is his daughter and it's a package deal, so I bite my tongue, smile and deal with it. Are you willing to do that? Good luck! I know it is a difficult situation to be in.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm wishing my DF son isn't biologically his the kid is an asshole and his mother is a bitch! We're getting a DNA test done.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 20 on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:16 AM

kissMy secret is...I wanna try this...shhhhh....

 

Quoting Nannosmommy:

I kissed a girl... And I liked it..the taste of her cherry Chapstic

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:17 AM

First of all, congratulations on your miracle child! I'm sorry to hear that another biological child is impossible, but I love that you are so open to adoption! I really hope you can get your husband on board, it's a wonderful thing. Good luck!

Quoting Anonymous:

We originally were told we could not have any, due to medical reasons. We were fine with that diagnosis, and we accepted the fact we wouldn' have biological children.   I became pregnant the next year- a one in a million longshot, and it was shocking, but welcome.  He didn't want another until our first was two. Another biological child at this point is impossible.  I want to adopt but he's on the fence.  He wants another child, but a bio child, KWIM?  To me, a child is a child and those you nurture and raise are yours. Paternity is not a factor, but love is.

Quoting Anonymous:

Good luck, I hope that is something you guys can work out. Did you discuss that before you married and had your one child? Did you know that the two of you had a difference in wants before?

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm perfectly fine with one child. My DH, not so much.




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:17 AM

I'm glad to hear that he's your ex!

Quoting Anonymous:

I thought I loved my exdh, but once we got married I realized that out entire relationship was built on drinking in bars and coke-fueled conversations at after parties.


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