Should a woman's husband be allowed to just open her shirt and/or stick his hand down the top of her shirt any time he wants?
Earlier this evening, my dh stuffed a nerf foot ball down my shirt. I took it out and he asked me why I took it out. So I said I don't like things down there. I kept my hands over the top of my shirt. I am wearing a straight line strappy tank top and still had my bra on so there was sort of a small opening while I was sitting.
Anyway, he went to move my hands and pull the top of my shirt out so he could either look down it or put his down it (probably the 2nd because that's how he is). I got upset because I felt violated (YES even by my dh) and he got ticked at me. Given the rigth time and place/situation, I would have been fine with it but at that moment I was very much not ok with it.
Would you be ok with your dh just doing that any time he felt like it?