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Im still crazy in love / obsessed with babydaddy *he turned me down once again

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We are both in very serious relationships with other people, but if he dumped the poor excuse of a girl hes with now, i'd leave my DF in a heartbeat. 

Hes the best baby daddy ever and has never missed 1 day of his visitation, and will take our kid whenever i need him too. he pays child support on time, and helps out when i need money. Hes got the bad boy look but hes the sweestest ever. i messed up and i don't think he'd ever look at me that way again. 

it kills me to get on his facebook and see photos of him with our kid knowing hes not mine and thats not our family anymore, and every photo he posts of him and his girl, i save to my computer and edit out her part of the photo.

i still have his name tattooed on my boob from when we were together, even tho he covered mine up.

hes my world.

my password for facebook is still hesmynate69


i f'ing love him.

i wish he could see that. but until he does, i facebook stalk him.

like today, he posted on facebook 

"stayed home today just needed a day to spend with lil dude while kris is at work. love days alone with my lil kman"

which kinda gave me the idea their fighting. 

i can hope <3333


yes this seems kinda stalkerish but i need to keep utd on what hes doing.


theres my confession for the night.


people keep asking why im with df if im in love with bd

i do love df but the love for bd is just much more. bd is up on this fake lil pedastool were df is just a normal person.  i'd do anything for bd! i didnt leave him he left me. i didnt cheat on him, i got into drugs a few times and after the 2nd time of catching me he gave me the choice of rehab or custody battle and at that time i had to pick custody battle. i wasnt ready to give it up.

he knows how i feel about him. i've told him over and over again. 

as im typing this we are talking on facebook and i plan on telling him again and honestly seeing about giving it a second chance.

i'll post the convo afterwards.

drugs were a mistake, and it still haunts me til today. i only get custody of my son TWO days a week. his dad gets 5 days a week so technically im a part time parent but i dont claim to be. im the only one my son has.

i want us to be a family.

and his response...which really made things even worse.  

maybe things arent suppose to be...but this doesnt change my love for him. 

i have him added under another name so i can still see whats going on with him, but that wasnt the response i was wanting.

i put time and effort into mine and he was just being a ass.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 16, 2013 at 11:01 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 17, 2013 at 5:20 PM

Im off all major drugs.

The only herb i do is marijuana. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Are you off drugs? Because you sound like a crackhead! Leave that man alone, damn I'm ashamed of you stop it.


Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting Anonymous:

do you have kids with your current bf? why not just tell ex how you feel and see what goes from there?

No kids with current df, i have told him before he got with his girlfriend and he wasn't interested.

i thought about texting him on his birthday and asking if he wanted a "suprise" present and seeing about hooking up and seeing if that brings back the love.



nikabear
by Gold Member on Jan. 17, 2013 at 6:00 PM
You need some serious help......
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 17, 2013 at 6:13 PM
I'm sorry but i think you're obsessed.


Quoting Anonymous:

We are both in very serious relationships with other people, but if he dumped the poor excuse of a girl hes with now, i'd leave my DF in a heartbeat. 

Hes the best baby daddy ever and has never missed 1 day of his visitation, and will take our kid whenever i need him too. he pays child support on time, and helps out when i need money. Hes got the bad boy look but hes the sweestest ever. i messed up and i don't think he'd ever look at me that way again. 

it kills me to get on his facebook and see photos of him with our kid knowing hes not mine and thats not our family anymore, and every photo he posts of him and his girl, i save to my computer and edit out her part of the photo.

i still have his name tattooed on my boob from when we were together, even tho he covered mine up.

hes my world.

my password for facebook is still hesmynate69


i f'ing love him.

i wish he could see that. but until he does, i facebook stalk him.

like today, he posted on facebook 

"stayed home today just needed a day to spend with lil dude while kris is at work. love days alone with my lil kman"

which kinda gave me the idea their fighting. 

i can hope <3333


yes this seems kinda stalkerish but i need to keep utd on what hes doing.


theres my confession for the night.


people keep asking why im with df if im in love with bd

i do love df but the love for bd is just much more. bd is up on this fake lil pedastool were df is just a normal person.  i'd do anything for bd! i didnt leave him he left me. i didnt cheat on him, i got into drugs a few times and after the 2nd time of catching me he gave me the choice of rehab or custody battle and at that time i had to pick custody battle. i wasnt ready to give it up.

he knows how i feel about him. i've told him over and over again. 

as im typing this we are talking on facebook and i plan on telling him again and honestly seeing about giving it a second chance.

i'll post the convo afterwards.

drugs were a mistake, and it still haunts me til today. i only get custody of my son TWO days a week. his dad gets 5 days a week so technically im a part time parent but i dont claim to be. im the only one my son has.

i want us to be a family.

and his response...which really made things even worse.  

maybe things arent suppose to be...but this doesnt change my love for him. 

i have him added under another name so i can still see whats going on with him, but that wasnt the response i was wanting.

i put time and effort into mine and he was just being a ass.


ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Jan. 17, 2013 at 6:24 PM

You're just a wee bit of crazy aren't ya?

muchlovedby4
by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 11:28 PM
Just in case noone else has said it, i will......


TTTTTRRRRROOOOOLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!


And no, i didn't read all replies before posting mine :)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 19, 2013 at 1:38 AM
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No, you were really being super creepy and stalkerish. why the heck is he paying YOU child support when he has your son 5 days a week? YOU should be paying HIM! And apparently your son has his dad more than he has you.

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