There are men out there THAT suck! There are a lot of women that suck as well.
I made the comment that if a man doesn't want a child, he should keep his penis in his pants or wear a few condoms.
My reason for that is not just to bash the men. You can't lump them all in one category. Some are always deadbeats and some turn into deadbeats. There are some shady, sneaky, skanky women out there. "I'm on the pill" "I'm fixed" "I can't get pregnant" Then...BAM! "I'm pregnant and its yours"
Birth control should NOT just be left up to the women. Men need to be better educated about protecting themselves from lying and manipulative women. People in general need more education about being more picky about who they lie down with. It so sad to see children with absent parents and broken homes. I speak from experience. I have one child with a total loser and two others with someone who changed into someone I didn't know.
No one can predict everything and avoid all bad things, but we can certainly stop the obvious! I know, I'm rambling. I just had some thoughts to get out there.