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No, YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT I MEAN!

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Ughh,

NO! Soo I hate being the shitty friend venting on CM about my best friend, but lately she is MAKING ME INSANE.

Her:

30

single

no job

she gets 10,000 a month for beloning to a tribe

no kids


Me:

living in poverty

single

2 kids, 1being special needs

2 jobs

school

hardly any assistance


So Im talking to her on facebook and shes talking about how I need to go clubbing with her tongiht (ha, right!) and Im like man I just have no money, we have no food right now and its just tough but maybe sometime next month we can get together (she lives two hours away, but we talk EVERYDAY) So Im talking to her and Im like I really need some REAL food, this lettuce and italian dressing gets old after a few days. and shes like OMG I know exactly what you mean girl...

whatever bitch. you are always talking about going to this restraunt or having some expensive steaks,

YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT I MEAN AND QUIT SAYING THAT THINKING  IT MAKES ME FEEL BETTER, because IT DOES NOT!


Sorry, Imjust so irritated with her lately. She seems to think I have 10k a month to go blow as well. Shell say things like "ughh I need a massage sooo bad, Im sooo stressed out" 

Her schedule through out the week is getting nails done, hair done, massages, facials, shopping, meeting up with friends for lunch, dinner, drinks, whatever.. going to hawaii.. the list goes on. ITS RIDIC!

Really what would their possibly be to stress out about?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 18, 2013 at 12:37 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 18, 2013 at 1:42 PM
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(Different anon here, who also thinks you sound bitter). This whole sentence SCREAMS bitter.

Quoting Anonymous:

Actually you're talking to the wrong Anon, that wasnt me that you just quoted.

but FYI: No, shes single to so I dont know what Id have to be bitter about that.  Yes, we struggle but I have a reason to be proud of myself, and know that I WORK for what we have. :) I couldnt IMAGINE being used by little boys for my money. So I guess she has that to stress out over. She is a great friend, and so am I to her, it has nothing to do with money. I guess I just dont understand her financial choices, just as she doesnt understand mine, nor would I ever claim that I did understand it...


Quoting Anonymous:

LMFAO I sound bitter?!?! Lmao
Have you read your post? Youre calling your own friend a bitch and venting like a 5 year old because you're single and poor and she's single w/ no kids and living well and she used the wrong "sentence" to attemp to console you?

Ridiculous lmao
Quoting Anonymous:

Are you the out of touch friend? You sound bitter.

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh FFS -are you on your period?





Quit being so damn sensitive. That's ridiculous. She was TRYING to be empathetic so you wouldn't feel bad. She meant no harm. How petty



Quoting Anonymous:

2 kids....

There are things someone can say other than I know what you mean, or I  understand or damn that sucks for you.

How about "Im sorry you have to go through this" There are TONS of things she could say, she does know my financial stuff. We are just at the crossroads right now... if you knew the back story on some of it, maybe youd be a bit more understanding. but Im not going to post everything.

When you say  "I understand" and you DONT, it is lying...





Quoting Anonymous:

Um wtf else is she supposed to say? You would've been just as pissed had she replied with "damn, that's sucks for you!"







Why the hell would you vent to someone who is obviously financially stable and just expect her to know what to say? Call someone else to bitch about your poverty too, someone who can possibly relate.



I don't understand why women do shit like that.







And she asked you to go out with her maybe just to get you out the house. You are working 2 jobs, how is she supposed to know what you can and cannot spare? You're a single mom of 3 kids. Maybe she just wanted to get you out to relax and have some fun. You obviously are too damn uptight









Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2013 at 1:46 PM



Quoting Anonymous:

How did she screw u over??? By having money and not giving you any???
Some people are not good with words and don't know what to say.


Its a long story.. so short version is we were going to go to a concert... she got the tickets I got the hotel room.. on my way to meet her she didnt reply to any of my texts, nothing she stood me up.... I ended up having to pay for the hotel room  anyways..

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 18, 2013 at 1:46 PM
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How has she screwed you over? Really, if you're going to try and justify your behavior by letting everyone know how "horrible" of a friend she has been to you, then you are still failing...If she's really that bad, then it's your own damn fault for being her "friend" (which you sound more like a frenemy that competes, gets jealous, and is two faced IMO). Don't put yourself in to a situation then whine about it because you chose to put yourself there.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 18, 2013 at 1:49 PM

I remember that post on here, and that wasn't how it went. You said she picked a night for you to go, and then you told her you couldn't make it THAT night, and you were mad at her for picking that night, and she went anyway because she already had the tickets. 

Quoting Anonymous:



Quoting Anonymous:

How did she screw u over??? By having money and not giving you any???
Some people are not good with words and don't know what to say.


Its a long story.. so short version is we were going to go to a concert... she got the tickets I got the hotel room.. on my way to meet her she didnt reply to any of my texts, nothing she stood me up.... I ended up having to pay for the hotel room  anyways..


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2013 at 1:56 PM
You have the wrong person..


Quoting Anonymous:

I remember that post on here, and that wasn't how it went. You said she picked a night for you to go, and then you told her you couldn't make it THAT night, and you were mad at her for picking that night, and she went anyway because she already had the tickets. 

Quoting Anonymous:




Quoting Anonymous:

How did she screw u over??? By having money and not giving you any???

Some people are not good with words and don't know what to say.



Its a long story.. so short version is we were going to go to a concert... she got the tickets I got the hotel room.. on my way to meet her she didnt reply to any of my texts, nothing she stood me up.... I ended up having to pay for the hotel room  anyways..



beco8627
by Silver Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 1:58 PM
Well I'm just coming in to comment about the tribe thing...first of all, I honestly didn't think people in tribes made money from it...and second of all, what the heck ARE they doing to make THAT much money?!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 18, 2013 at 2:00 PM

No, I may not have the story exactly right, but it was definitely the same story. It was pretty recent. 

Quoting Anonymous:

You have the wrong person..


Quoting Anonymous:

I remember that post on here, and that wasn't how it went. You said she picked a night for you to go, and then you told her you couldn't make it THAT night, and you were mad at her for picking that night, and she went anyway because she already had the tickets. 

Quoting Anonymous:




Quoting Anonymous:

How did she screw u over??? By having money and not giving you any???

Some people are not good with words and don't know what to say.



Its a long story.. so short version is we were going to go to a concert... she got the tickets I got the hotel room.. on my way to meet her she didnt reply to any of my texts, nothing she stood me up.... I ended up having to pay for the hotel room  anyways..




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2013 at 2:02 PM
No..this want pretty recent it was a year ago Jan 6


Quoting Anonymous:

No, I may not have the story exactly right, but it was definitely the same story. It was pretty recent. 

Quoting Anonymous:

You have the wrong person..





Quoting Anonymous:

I remember that post on here, and that wasn't how it went. You said she picked a night for you to go, and then you told her you couldn't make it THAT night, and you were mad at her for picking that night, and she went anyway because she already had the tickets. 

Quoting Anonymous:





Quoting Anonymous:

How did she screw u over??? By having money and not giving you any???


Some people are not good with words and don't know what to say.




Its a long story.. so short version is we were going to go to a concert... she got the tickets I got the hotel room.. on my way to meet her she didnt reply to any of my texts, nothing she stood me up.... I ended up having to pay for the hotel room  anyways..






Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2013 at 2:03 PM
I dunno, but all her sisters get it, and so dies her dad and any children she has.


Quoting beco8627:

Well I'm just coming in to comment about the tribe thing...first of all, I honestly didn't think people in tribes made money from it...and second of all, what the heck ARE they doing to make THAT much money?!

beco8627
by Silver Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 2:05 PM
Sayyyy whaaat? Super confused


Quoting Anonymous:

I dunno, but all her sisters get it, and so dies her dad and any children she has.




Quoting beco8627:

Well I'm just coming in to comment about the tribe thing...first of all, I honestly didn't think people in tribes made money from it...and second of all, what the heck ARE they doing to make THAT much money?!


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