I f&#*ing cant do this.


Try turning off whatever is on that he's so enamoured with (tv, computer, phone). Then try it again.
Quoting heartnhidin:
I have, he doesn't communicate back to me. He literally sits there and goes "okay yeah I know"
Quoting jillbailey26:Talk to him about it. Let him know that he needs to help more around the house or you'll be forced to quit.

Quoting Sassy762:Don't listen to anyone that is a Coward and doesn't have the balls to quote me and say this under their SN
Quoting Anonymous:Don't take this childish advice. She's not even married. What the hell does she know?
Quoting Sassy762:Go on Strike
Tell him that he needs to help out and IF he doesn't then you won't be cleaning either

I agree.
Quoting Sassy762:Go on Strike
Tell him that he needs to help out and IF he doesn't then you won't be cleaning either

Maybe divide up some of the household things and ask him to do some. It is not fair if you are working also. I do not work, but my SO helps around the house. You are going to get burned out doing everything. I hope you can come to an agreement. I like how when you are a sahm they make excuses that all you do is stay at home but when you get a job they have no more excuses and still refuse to help. I have been there before and there is a reason I am no longer married to him.

You would be surprised....I think there are a lot more men on here than most of us think, lol
Quoting svolkov:
I dont think anyone on here has balls. Just saying
Quoting Sassy762:Don't listen to anyone that is a Coward and doesn't have the balls to quote me and say this under their SN
Quoting Anonymous:Don't take this childish advice. She's not even married. What the hell does she know?
Quoting Sassy762:Go on Strike
Tell him that he needs to help out and IF he doesn't then you won't be cleaning either

sorry, if I work the evening shift Dh lets me sleep in.
- jillbailey26
on Jan. 18, 2013 at 3:19 PMDoes it ever change anything, even for a short amount of time? You could always get home one day to a messy house and tell him then that you're putting in your two week notice the next day.
"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification" Romans 14:19