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My SO and I agreed that I get a job at nights. We need the extra money and I wanted to get out of the house for a bit. So I started work two weeks ago and have had one night off since I started. It's been crazy. I come home at around 12:30 am every night. I get up at 6 am with the kids and get DS off to school. I am so overwhelmed and SO doesn't help around the house. So I get home and have to clean. I am angry and just can not stand him right now. Vent over
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by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 3:14 PM
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strictmomhere
by Ruby Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 3:33 PM
Write him a letter that may help:)
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heartnhidin
by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 3:48 PM
It really is, I have little sleep because I am home with the baby during the day. I started crying the other day on my way to the food store. No idea why I just got so emotional. Some people can do it and that's because they have a great support system.

Quoting KaylasMama11:

definitely that's to much.


Quoting jillbailey26:

Yes he does.  She's working now too, the household stuff should be split between them.

Quoting KaylasMama11:


that's ggross though they have kids! he needs to.stop being lazy.


Quoting jillbailey26:

With some husbands, that advice actually works, but not all.

Quoting Anonymous:

Don't take this childish advice.  She's not even married.  What the hell does she know?

Quoting Sassy762:

Go on Strike

Tell him that he needs to help out and IF he doesn't then you won't be cleaning either










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KaylasMama11
by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 4:30 PM


exactly i went through the same thing with my dh i work days he is home with the baby most days so when i would come home the house would be a mess id be fustrated because ok i wake up early morning bust my ass at work all day long i dont even get breaks than i got to come home clean cook dinner clean after dinner give the baby a bbath book bed etc etc it gets overwhelming especially if you work 6 days a week. but i would get so angry he changed he saw how stressed i was. its not right. if he loves you so much he wouldnt want you feeling this way you should talk to him. have you?

Quoting heartnhidin:

It really is, I have little sleep because I am home with the baby during the day. I started crying the other day on my way to the food store. No idea why I just got so emotional. Some people can do it and that's because they have a great support system.

Quoting KaylasMama11:

definitely that's to much.


Quoting jillbailey26:

Yes he does.  She's working now too, the household stuff should be split between them.

Quoting KaylasMama11:


that's ggross though they have kids! he needs to.stop being lazy.


Quoting jillbailey26:

With some husbands, that advice actually works, but not all.

Quoting Anonymous:

Don't take this childish advice.  She's not even married.  What the hell does she know?

Quoting Sassy762:

Go on Strike

Tell him that he needs to help out and IF he doesn't then you won't be cleaning either












melissaaytes
by Bronze Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 4:45 PM

Haha or just quit cleaning anything of his, don't do his laundry throw all his shit in a pile when he leaves it in the floor...etc.  LOL he will get the message eventually!!  GL!

Quoting jillbailey26:

With some husbands, that advice actually works, but not all.

Quoting Anonymous:

Don't take this childish advice.  She's not even married.  What the hell does she know?

Quoting Sassy762:

Go on Strike

Tell him that he needs to help out and IF he doesn't then you won't be cleaning either




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Eliots_momma
by Gold Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 4:47 PM
If you both work outside the home then you both need to work inside the home. End of story.
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