What is the BIG deal with getting MARRIED?!?!?!?!?! *VENT* *ADDED INFO*
I'm constantly harassed by family and my sort of boyfriend to get married. I don't know if that's what I want. The divorce rate is sooo high. I'm not jumping into something that I will vow to be apart of forever if I don't know 100% that's what I want. I know that shit happens and people get divorced. I don't want to say yes when I'm unsure. *Vent Over*
Anybody else deal with this????
*I was engaged to my children's father. I wasn't supposed to be able to have children so when I found out I was pregnant we were both surprised but very happy. We were planning on having children close together (or so I thought but different history for a different time) so I was pregnant when we were planning our wedding which was supposed to be 3 months after our second was born (give me enough time to fit into my dress). He became verbally abusive while I was pregnant with our second and then physically abusive after I gave birth then I left. I wasn't completely sure about us getting married but figured we would work it out after we were more settled with our children but when the abuse started I planned and ran.*