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Anonymous
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I woke up to an eviction notice on our door.it says we owe 3770.00 and had a list of things that were supposed to be paid.DH signed the lease and WAS supposed to pay everything and the rent for a whole year.I gave him 11,000 of my inheritance money,this should have been taking care of.

Now im going to pay this but I want to know where 5290 went to.I know im going to get lied to so why bother

Edit 1

DH just got home so im gonna grill his ass about this eviction mess for a while.I will come back and update asap

Edit 2
Sorry it took me so long to get back.so I grilled DH and like I thought he told a bunch of lies.first he said he gambled it but he doesn't gamble,then he said he helped BIL with some car payment thinking I would just drop the whole thing.

So I told him im going call BIL to confirm what DH said....he flipped out and then said he gave his niece (who I HATE) my money.apparently she's behind on her mortgage and really needed the money IDGAF! He never asked me because he knew I would say no.I called her and she told me dh did give her the money and she will try to give it back (lie).

I was so mad at dh.we are nearly on the streets while his niece has her house WTF? So DH agreed he would do a hardship withdrawal from 401k to pay the past due balance so I can still get my car.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 19, 2013 at 10:58 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 19, 2013 at 10:59 AM
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oh hell no!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:00 AM
That stinks
notjstasocermom
by Emerald Member on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:01 AM
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why did you giove him 11,000? seems kind of a dumb move

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:03 AM
He was supposed to pay the rent for a whole year.


Quoting notjstasocermom:

why did you giove him 11,000? seems kind of a dumb move


Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:03 AM
Tell him it's the truth or divorce papers and if he even attempts a lie, it's on.

Yeah, yeah, rush to the divorce, but putting your family in this kind of position on purpose doesn't make him family man material.
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Mamasgirl524
by Platinum Member on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:04 AM
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You should have just done it yourself girl you're the only one loyal to you.

Quoting Anonymous:

He was supposed to pay the rent for a whole year.




Quoting notjstasocermom:

why did you giove him 11,000? seems kind of a dumb move


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:06 AM
I was in another state when dh came to south Carolina to sign the lease.he went first and then I was to follow behind him.I gave that to cover the deposit,rent and pet deposit.


Quoting Mamasgirl524:

You should have just done it yourself girl you're the only one loyal to you.



Quoting Anonymous:

He was supposed to pay the rent for a whole year.






Quoting notjstasocermom:

why did you giove him 11,000? seems kind of a dumb move



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:08 AM
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Lol I texted him "we got eviction papers"

"The truth or im gone"

He hasn't responded.


Quoting Nicoleb9:

Tell him it's the truth or divorce papers and if he even attempts a lie, it's on.



Yeah, yeah, rush to the divorce, but putting your family in this kind of position on purpose doesn't make him family man material.

Buggy979
by Platinum Member on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:09 AM
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Wow, your hubby has some explaining to do..
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Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Jan. 19, 2013 at 11:10 AM
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Good! It's refreshing to see someone here actually stand up to this kind of nonsense. Stick to it! He's already shown his irresponsibility is bad enough to leave you nearly homeless. He's likely pissed away your money that was meant for rent. He can at least fess up.


Quoting Anonymous:

Lol I texted him "we got eviction papers"



"The truth or im gone"



He hasn't responded.




Quoting Nicoleb9:

Tell him it's the truth or divorce papers and if he even attempts a lie, it's on.





Yeah, yeah, rush to the divorce, but putting your family in this kind of position on purpose doesn't make him family man material.


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