Yes, I know I'm stupid. I took the safety bar off of my bed to change the sheets. Didn't put it back on. Last night my daughter and I were sleeping when I heard the thump and she started screaming! MAN I AM STUPID! I am SO lucky she didn't hit the side table on her way down to the floor. I got so lucky there. Arg! She is not my first child, but she is my first to ever fall off the bed. I've been holding and apologizing to her all day. I know how to safely co-sleep, but NO I didn't do it right. Nope, I was a complete idiot. She'll be okay, but I will never forget that scream now. ARG!!!!