I have a 3 year old dd and her father has had custody of her for a little over a year. I recently moved out of state, and am filing a modification in visitation on Monday. Her father is being slightly difficult about it, so I'm sure I'll have to go to court. Does anyone know if it is possible to appear in court over the phone? I know it varies per state. The court hearing would be in Missouri. I am in Texas. I also have an 8 month old dd, and traveling for one court hearing would not be ideal. If I absolutely have to travel, I have no problem doing so. I would just prefer to not drag my youngest through that if I don't have to. I'm not looking to get bashed, or judged. I just really need honest advice and help.