When ds was born, my husband and I came to the decision that I would wake up with him on week nights (since we had decided I would stay at home with him) and he would take the weekend shift. He hasn't gotten up with him once during the night in the 5 weeks of ds' life. The only time he gets up with him is when he wakes up in the am, and after he fees him and changes him he brings him back to me instead of letting me sleep in like he says he is. It seems like even during the day it's like twisting his arm to get him to feed him or change his diaper. How can I get my husband to stick to his guns and actually help out??