My husband and I separated last summer because I found out he selling all of his prescription pain killers. He is on oxycotin and oxycodone. We were separated for 3 months and he promised to stop selling his pills.
We got into counseling and worked through the problem of his selling drugs and the lying about it. Or so I thought. I let him come back home when I was sure that he was not selling anymore.
Well tonight he was in the shower and he got a text. I glanced over because at first I thought it was my phone. We have the same phone and the same text chime. He usually has his phone on vibrate and I never do
Anyway. I look and it is from the guy he used to sell to asking when he was going to meet him because he had some money to spend and needed some help.
I picked up his phone and went throught it. He is selling again. There were texts from the same people he sold to before and some others I didn't recognise. All of them asking if he had anything left, or to meet him somewhere and that they had money.
When he got out of the shower, I confronted him. At least he didn't lie. He admitted he was selling. He wouldn't say for how long. His responce was "a little while" He said he was sorry and he would stop in a month or two.
Ok first of all I will NOT live with a drug dealer.
Second, where is the money going? I pay all of the bills except the cell phone which is around $200 and the car insurance which is less than $100.
He makes over $1000 a month at his job. Who knows how much he is getting from the pills.
I cannot and will not do this again. I am done. I have to get him out of my house.
I am laying here trying to figure out how to get him out tomorrow. I made him sleep on the couch tonight, so he knows I am pissed.
This is a very small town and he went to school with half of the police department, plus I don't have proof. It is on his phone, which he has. So he has probably erased it by now.
Legally I can't just tell him to leave and make him go. I don't know how but somehow I have to get him out.
I am filing for divorce as soon as possible.
Any ideas how to get him out?