So... two of my friends can't stand each other, they sort of "deal" when they have to - out of respect for me.
Anyway, I have been friends with Friend1 for almost 20 years, and became friends with Friend2 a few years ago, but I hjave been spending more time with Friend2 over the last year or two.
Friend1 and I are each others' childrens' godparents. We have very similar parenting styles and personalities. We don't step in and yell at each others' children, unless there is good reason to do so, or if they aren't readily available.
Friend2 has been called out by me a few times about how I find it disrespectful to step in and parent someone elses' child when they are right there. Well, they were together, and apparently when I wasn't around, Friend2 would yell at ALL of the kids (hers, Friend1's and mine). Friend1 held her tongue against her the whole time because she didn't want to start anything, but she just told me now. If I knew then, I could have handled it properly. What do I do now? Do I even bring it up - since they don't see each other often anyway???