For a single mom, no dad in the picture, to be military. Especially to make a career out of it. And even more especially when youre child has issues that you have been told by more than one doctor are directly caused by your extended abscences during his early childhood. It is selfish to dump your violent and ill behaved child on random family members for months or years on end while you are training and/or deployed. No stability because no one can handle him for more than one period of time, and wont take him more than once and hes spent more time away from you than with you.
Yeah. You're making good money to give your kids whatever they want, but don't you think they want their MOM more?