I was the original op. It got locked. I didnt edit because the replies went up so fast it was impossible to keep up. And no Im not a troll.
I never have told anyone about this. Not even in our family. A lot of people in my family have always wondered why I do not speak to my father. I don't say why because I'm ashamed.
To answer the most frequently asked questions, it was me I wouldnt do that to anyone. And it was for telling after a boy tried to rape me. The reasoning was that I went with friends on school lunch hour when it happened. My father believed I was lying and ruining the boys life, and if I wasnt lying I put myself in the situation by going with friends. That is why I was not allowed to have friends.
Do you consider this abuse?
To ground a 11 yr child for 2 years, not allowing them out of their room for any reason other than toilet and shower.
No family meals, meals eaten in room. Having friends is not allowed even at school. No outing with family or joining in celebrations and holidays. No extra curricular activities at school. Having all personal possessions including momentos and jewellery ect, except clothing, removed and thrown out. Window pane painted over black.