Would you be mad if your DH

[Anonymous]

Facebook searched an old gf while you two were not doing well? I told my husband about a week and a half ago that I was thinking of a divorce. He wanted to change and try to work it out between us both. We didn't have the real serious divorce convo till this past Saturday morning, but I discovered tonight that he already looked up his ex on FB last week aka before our serious sit down. Would you be upset or understanding considering the circumstances? 

ETA: I was mad and confronted asking him if he looked her look up and he denied it, which makes me feel his intentions were not innocent ones.

[Snapdragon88]

I can't really say because I don't know his intentions. I've looked up every single one of my ex's on fb out of pure curiosity. It meant absolutely nothing.

[Anonymous]

The timing speaks volumes, IMO.

Quoting Snapdragon88:

I can't really say because I don't know his intentions. I've looked up every single one of my ex's on fb out of pure curiosity. It meant absolutely nothing.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I was mad and confronted asking him if he looked her look up and he denied it, which makes me feel his intentions were not innocent ones.

Quoting Snapdragon88:

I can't really say because I don't know his intentions. I've looked up every single one of my ex's on fb out of pure curiosity. It meant absolutely nothing.

[Kitschy]

I wouldn't be mad. I look up old boyfriends all the time.

[sophiesister2]

Id be mad just because im a pretty jealous person lol

[Twix.Leigh]

No not cool. Especially when thinking over your marriage. If he truly wanted to work on your marriage he wouldn't be looking up exes...

[Ultra_]

I have mine on FB, and I'm pretty sure I'd be talking to him too. After my husband, he knows the most about me. So, I don't think I'd be mad. I'd just want to get it over with so we could both move on.

[Anonymous]

eek... i feel the same as you. even though we DID break up (just in a relationship), but he added his ex girlfriend (who caused issues in the beginning of our relationship) like a week after we ended things.

it made me feel like all teh years we were together, he just really wanted to be with her. unable to b/c she moved so far away right before we met. i havent even asked him about it. i dont think that i ever will- i doubt this relationship can be saved

[TTC2Long]

You should include that info in your op. It makes a big difference.

Quoting Anonymous:

I was mad and confronted asking him if he looked her look up and he denied it, which makes me feel his intentions were not innocent ones.

Quoting Snapdragon88:

I can't really say because I don't know his intentions. I've looked up every single one of my ex's on fb out of pure curiosity. It meant absolutely nothing.

[calvinsmommy18]

I have several exes on my fb already so I wouldt care.