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my dh is super freaked out, tmi

Anonymous
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I'm 35 weeks along and he's scared to do it to me. He is already weirded out that our son is so big. He says he feels like he's being watched.
...but, i guess the last time he we did (over aweek ago, which is a very long time for us) he felt baby move and more he doesn't want to have secks until the baby comes now.
How can i get him past this? I feel super rejected. It's still ME, and i feel like he's not attracted to ME because of the baby.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:11 AM
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LilyofPhilly
by Platinum Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:14 AM
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Maybe find other ways to be intimate besides intercourse.
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AleaKat
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:14 AM
It's not you. Maybe you should just wait it out till the baby is here.
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LoveMyLos
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:14 AM
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My dh said the same thing. I said, youre right, the baby is going to get pissed and reach down rip your pecker off.......sounds just as stupid. Lol
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:14 AM
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Maybe secks isn't a good idea

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm 35 weeks along and he's scared to do it to me. He is already weirded out that our son is so big. He says he feels like he's being watched.

...but, i guess the last time he we did (over aweek ago, which is a very long time for us) he felt baby move and more he doesn't want to have secks until the baby comes now.

How can i get him past this? I feel super rejected. It's still ME, and i feel like he's not attracted to ME because of the baby.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:16 AM
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Can you seriously not spell sex ?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:16 AM
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I don't like secks either, try sex instead.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:17 AM
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Secks?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:18 AM

It's pretty normal.  Are you all young? I think it's more common with younger guys who tend to be less mature.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:19 AM
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Oh stop she was just axing a question.

Quoting Anonymous:

Can you seriously not spell sex ?

Kaytlin
by Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 7:19 AM
Lmao secks! Maybe that's the issue I've been having. I think I'll try sex tonight and see if that doesn't make a difference!

Eta. I'm 26 weeks pregnant. And I HATE having sex right now, I feel bad for my SO but its so damn uncomfortable.
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