I am a little confused, weirded out LAST UPDATE ITS OVER

Just found a pregnancy test in my trashcan. It's positive.
I have no daughters that could get pregnant. They are 4 and 5.
My son is only 8.

Umm ... Who the fuck took a pregnancy test in my bathroom?

Some members on here have me concerned the babysitter may be sleeping with my husband. Looking back they are flirtatious. I'm going to do some extra investigating before I ask the babysitter if its her test

The babysitter didnt come by but she called. I just straight up asked her if she left something in the bathroom. She said yes and apologized and basically hung up on me. I looked at phone records and she has been texting my DH regularly. It's not really the texts that bother me because she really hasn't texted him much more than she has texted me its that in the last month the amount has doubled and there are picture messages


Okay i decided to play it smart. I told him kalani was pregnant and just acted like I didn't know anything. Now I'm patiently waiting on the AT&T account to see if he calls her

HE CALLED HER! Omg! My heart is racing. I'm like mad, sad, shocked...idk. I didn't think it would actually start adding up.


Well I talked to my husband. I called his bluff and said I knew everything. He caved but swore it was just one time and he wore a condom. He doesn't think the baby is his. She has a long term boyfriend. I don't know if it was really just one time or what but I know she's pregnant and my DH did sleep with her.


I'm still in denial or something. i have a million emotions running through my head. I haven't talked to DH again. Thanks for all the supportive comments.


Hey I noticed I keep getting a lot of notifications for an update. Nothing really has changed. My husband has been staying in the camper and I have been in the house. I went and stayed with my best friend last weekend so he could stay in the house with the kids and we went out and had some drinks. I am basically like fuck him at this point I don't have time for games. So I'm going to keep the house and my car and he is going to make the payments. Plus child support. We are going to get the custody arrangement mediated and then I will file for divorce.

He still only admitted to one time and the babysitter is to chicken shit to answer the phone. I called her mom and told her and she apologized and seemed to be empathetic. My husband said he will get a paternity test but I honestly don't care now. She can have him...I'm way too disgusted to stay with him

[mich.el.le]

Quoting Anonymous:

Picture messages of what?

Quoting mich.el.le:

I used to text the guy I nannied for, picture messages too. I wouldn't jump to that conclusion. It is odd that she took the test at your house though.

His kids mostly. 

[Corina1987]

Wow thats crazy. It seems like she wanted that to be found . I hope things work out and its all a misunderstanding.

[pamelam20]

:-(

[Anonymous 71]

Is this a TROLL POST??

[Anonymous 72]

Bump for later

[Anonymous 73]

I'm calling troll. Why the eff would the babysitter take her test at YOUR house and risk you finding it? You weren't even sure of her age, and naturally, your DH is conveniently gone when all this happens. Puh-lease. Too many holes and "conveniences" in this story. Pssh.

[MommyKir]

well you do need to sit down with her, and you need to ask her point blank. "I need to know the truth I will not get angry or upset with you. Did you concieve in my home, or did you just take the test here so your parents didnt see it." and if she did something in your house ask " Does my husband have anything to do with this, you can tell me i will not get upset with you. I would not blame you"

[Anonymous 72]

This honestly seems like something from a movie..... I'm not saying its a troll post either.

[colins_mom]

Instead of being sneaky ask him

[Anonymous 74]

Maybe he just called to check on her? Hoping for the best for you!