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I am a little confused, weirded out LAST UPDATE ITS OVER

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Just found a pregnancy test in my trashcan. It's positive.
I have no daughters that could get pregnant. They are 4 and 5.
My son is only 8.

Umm ... Who the fuck took a pregnancy test in my bathroom?

Some members on here have me concerned the babysitter may be sleeping with my husband. Looking back they are flirtatious. I'm going to do some extra investigating before I ask the babysitter if its her test

The babysitter didnt come by but she called. I just straight up asked her if she left something in the bathroom. She said yes and apologized and basically hung up on me. I looked at phone records and she has been texting my DH regularly. It's not really the texts that bother me because she really hasn't texted him much more than she has texted me its that in the last month the amount has doubled and there are picture messages

Okay i decided to play it smart. I told him kalani was pregnant and just acted like I didn't know anything. Now I'm patiently waiting on the AT&T account to see if he calls her

HE CALLED HER! Omg! My heart is racing. I'm like mad, sad, shocked...idk. I didn't think it would actually start adding up.

Well I talked to my husband. I called his bluff and said I knew everything. He caved but swore it was just one time and he wore a condom. He doesn't think the baby is his. She has a long term boyfriend. I don't know if it was really just one time or what but I know she's pregnant and my DH did sleep with her.

I'm still in denial or something. i have a million emotions running through my head. I haven't talked to DH again. Thanks for all the supportive comments.

Hey I noticed I keep getting a lot of notifications for an update. Nothing really has changed. My husband has been staying in the camper and I have been in the house. I went and stayed with my best friend last weekend so he could stay in the house with the kids and we went out and had some drinks. I am basically like fuck him at this point I don't have time for games. So I'm going to keep the house and my car and he is going to make the payments. Plus child support. We are going to get the custody arrangement mediated and then I will file for divorce.

He still only admitted to one time and the babysitter is to chicken shit to answer the phone. I called her mom and told her and she apologized and seemed to be empathetic. My husband said he will get a paternity test but I honestly don't care now. She can have him...I'm way too disgusted to stay with him
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:24 AM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:28 AM
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I don't have a sister. Both my mil and mom have their tubes tied and I can't imagine they would take a test at my house even if they thought they were pregnant. My brother's gf is already 7 months pregnant so idk why she would take a pregnancy test but she hasn't been here.
I'm thinking it has to be the babysitter.

Quoting Anonymous:

Do you have any sister,  cousins,  does your mom come over,  aunts?  How about your dh/so's girlfriend?

by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:28 AM
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Call that bitch up! This is an emergency!

Quoting Anonymous:

He's been at work since Saturday.

Quoting Anonymous:

Ask your DH?

by Gold Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:28 AM

Don't you know who has been in your house?

by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:29 AM
Wow not cool so not cool it's sounding like hubs got a gf
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by Queen Bee on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:29 AM

Are you friends with the Duggars?

by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:29 AM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:29 AM
He's been at work since Saturday. And he's at a motel. If he had some side bitch knocked up surely he would be smart enough to have her take the Test at the motel

Quoting AngelRT:

Oh wow. I would be calling my husband IMMEDIATELY asking him wtf was up! 

by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:29 AM
Very strange. Maybe you took it when you were sleep walking
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by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:29 AM
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Maybe your 8 year old was playing around with his buddies? I remember getting ahold of a condom pack when we were around 12, we blew them up and did stupid crap with them just bc we had no idea what they were actually for and thought it was funny.
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM

It is true, if a guy pees on a pregnancy test and it turns up positive he could have testicular cancer. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Why laugh she's serious

Quoting Anonymous:

Haha what? My husband is a hypochondriac. I would have heard about a cancer scare.

Quoting Anonymous:

Your husband could be checking for cancer?  I think I read that somewhere.  Google it.

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