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I am a little confused, weirded out LAST UPDATE ITS OVER

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Just found a pregnancy test in my trashcan. It's positive.
I have no daughters that could get pregnant. They are 4 and 5.
My son is only 8.

Umm ... Who the fuck took a pregnancy test in my bathroom?

Some members on here have me concerned the babysitter may be sleeping with my husband. Looking back they are flirtatious. I'm going to do some extra investigating before I ask the babysitter if its her test

The babysitter didnt come by but she called. I just straight up asked her if she left something in the bathroom. She said yes and apologized and basically hung up on me. I looked at phone records and she has been texting my DH regularly. It's not really the texts that bother me because she really hasn't texted him much more than she has texted me its that in the last month the amount has doubled and there are picture messages


Okay i decided to play it smart. I told him kalani was pregnant and just acted like I didn't know anything. Now I'm patiently waiting on the AT&T account to see if he calls her

HE CALLED HER! Omg! My heart is racing. I'm like mad, sad, shocked...idk. I didn't think it would actually start adding up.


Well I talked to my husband. I called his bluff and said I knew everything. He caved but swore it was just one time and he wore a condom. He doesn't think the baby is his. She has a long term boyfriend. I don't know if it was really just one time or what but I know she's pregnant and my DH did sleep with her.


I'm still in denial or something. i have a million emotions running through my head. I haven't talked to DH again. Thanks for all the supportive comments.


Hey I noticed I keep getting a lot of notifications for an update. Nothing really has changed. My husband has been staying in the camper and I have been in the house. I went and stayed with my best friend last weekend so he could stay in the house with the kids and we went out and had some drinks. I am basically like fuck him at this point I don't have time for games. So I'm going to keep the house and my car and he is going to make the payments. Plus child support. We are going to get the custody arrangement mediated and then I will file for divorce.

He still only admitted to one time and the babysitter is to chicken shit to answer the phone. I called her mom and told her and she apologized and seemed to be empathetic. My husband said he will get a paternity test but I honestly don't care now. She can have him...I'm way too disgusted to stay with him
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:24 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM
But I mean I take out the bathroom trash a lot. I don't think it's been in there since Saturday ..


Quoting Anonymous:

Call that bitch up! This is an emergency!




Quoting Anonymous:

He's been at work since Saturday.






Quoting Anonymous:

Ask your DH?



raegansmom
by Gold Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM

 I confess, it was me!

JLah
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM

Wow thats odd.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM
I thought I did


Quoting kryptomom:

Don't you know who has been in your house?


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:31 AM
But it's positive?


Quoting Anonymous:

Maybe your 8 year old was playing around with his buddies? I remember getting ahold of a condom pack when we were around 12, we blew them up and did stupid crap with them just bc we had no idea what they were actually for and thought it was funny.

The_Doodle
by Platinum Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:32 AM

Just call him and ask. Even if he's been gone maybe he will suggest a logical explanation.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:32 AM
Oh... I never knew that. But my mom is a nurse. If he thought something was wrong he would be having me call her with symptoms


Quoting Lyssa0587:


It is true, if a guy pees on a pregnancy test and it turns up positive he could have testicular cancer. 


Quoting Anonymous:

Why laugh she's serious





Quoting Anonymous:

Haha what? My husband is a hypochondriac. I would have heard about a cancer scare.







Quoting Anonymous:

Your husband could be checking for cancer?  I think I read that somewhere.  Google it.









Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:33 AM
I have to wait till lunch anyway. He's at work.


Quoting The_Doodle:

Just call him and ask. Even if he's been gone maybe he will suggest a logical explanation.


tinkerbelle18
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:33 AM

Wow, thats really odd. Hopefully you find the answer soon.

LilliesValley
by Ruby Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:33 AM
Your husbands or SO's girlfriend? that would be the only thing that I could think of or rather the first thing that popped into my mind. I guess if he has a sister then it could be that too, but I still think my first hunch is more likely than not right.
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