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I am a little confused, weirded out LAST UPDATE ITS OVER

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Just found a pregnancy test in my trashcan. It's positive.
I have no daughters that could get pregnant. They are 4 and 5.
My son is only 8.

Umm ... Who the fuck took a pregnancy test in my bathroom?

Some members on here have me concerned the babysitter may be sleeping with my husband. Looking back they are flirtatious. I'm going to do some extra investigating before I ask the babysitter if its her test

The babysitter didnt come by but she called. I just straight up asked her if she left something in the bathroom. She said yes and apologized and basically hung up on me. I looked at phone records and she has been texting my DH regularly. It's not really the texts that bother me because she really hasn't texted him much more than she has texted me its that in the last month the amount has doubled and there are picture messages


Okay i decided to play it smart. I told him kalani was pregnant and just acted like I didn't know anything. Now I'm patiently waiting on the AT&T account to see if he calls her

HE CALLED HER! Omg! My heart is racing. I'm like mad, sad, shocked...idk. I didn't think it would actually start adding up.


Well I talked to my husband. I called his bluff and said I knew everything. He caved but swore it was just one time and he wore a condom. He doesn't think the baby is his. She has a long term boyfriend. I don't know if it was really just one time or what but I know she's pregnant and my DH did sleep with her.


I'm still in denial or something. i have a million emotions running through my head. I haven't talked to DH again. Thanks for all the supportive comments.


Hey I noticed I keep getting a lot of notifications for an update. Nothing really has changed. My husband has been staying in the camper and I have been in the house. I went and stayed with my best friend last weekend so he could stay in the house with the kids and we went out and had some drinks. I am basically like fuck him at this point I don't have time for games. So I'm going to keep the house and my car and he is going to make the payments. Plus child support. We are going to get the custody arrangement mediated and then I will file for divorce.

He still only admitted to one time and the babysitter is to chicken shit to answer the phone. I called her mom and told her and she apologized and seemed to be empathetic. My husband said he will get a paternity test but I honestly don't care now. She can have him...I'm way too disgusted to stay with him
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:24 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:34 AM
Ohhh, ok. Maybe it *was* the babysitter.


Quoting Anonymous:

But I mean I take out the bathroom trash a lot. I don't think it's been in there since Saturday ..




Quoting Anonymous:

Call that bitch up! This is an emergency!






Quoting Anonymous:

He's been at work since Saturday.








Quoting Anonymous:

Ask your DH?




emilysmom8
by Platinum Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:34 AM
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 Id call the babysitter, chances are its her that did it.. Unless someone broke into your house just to see if she's pregnant

Kat31
by AlwaysWatching on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:34 AM
Just ask your babysitter. That has to be her test right?
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ausomezombie2.0
by Silver Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:36 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:37 AM
I think if they sit too long the readings change and become inaccurate.


Quoting Anonymous:

But it's positive?




Quoting Anonymous:

Maybe your 8 year old was playing around with his buddies? I remember getting ahold of a condom pack when we were around 12, we blew them up and did stupid crap with them just bc we had no idea what they were actually for and thought it was funny.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:37 AM
You're explanation is crazier than mine. He is 8 hours away in another state. And he left Saturday at 7 in the morning. The bathroom trashcan is small. I've taken it out since then. And even more Sunday evening I took all The trash in the house to the dumpster because yesterday was trash day


Quoting Anonymous:

Ohhh, ok. Maybe it *was* the babysitter.




Quoting Anonymous:

But I mean I take out the bathroom trash a lot. I don't think it's been in there since Saturday ..






Quoting Anonymous:

Call that bitch up! This is an emergency!








Quoting Anonymous:

He's been at work since Saturday.










Quoting Anonymous:

Ask your DH?





Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:38 AM
Obviously if the only other female who has been there was the babysitter then call and ask! It's not that complicated to do.
AdensMommy1107
by Emerald Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:39 AM
Yikes! Time to ask DH. Did you have a female relative or friend over recently?
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Iron_Beauty
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:39 AM

You said something about a babysitter - how old is she?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:39 AM
She's 17. It's a little awkward.


Quoting Anonymous:

Obviously if the only other female who has been there was the babysitter then call and ask! It's not that complicated to do.

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