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ETA/ 2-3-13) Positive pregnancy test in the bathroom and it's NOT mine

Anonymous
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I found about an hour and a half ago.

We have 15 year old twins daughters
And I 17 year old son.

They all had some friend over today.

I don't know what the hell I'm suppose to do at this point.



Seriousily I'm not a troll.

Willow and Lilly just turned 15 a month ago.

Kameron will be 18 in September.

I found it under the bathroom sink.


But I don't want to talk to them all at once or accuse any one when I know it Could possibly be one of their friends.

DH will be home in an Hour \\sigh

Eta DH called. He's on his way home. He's stopping to get 2 Tests incase no one confesses....


Eta we got our answer.
I'm to shocked and my nerves are too shot to try to explain. I'll update in the morning. I'm going to go back to trying not to Cry



Edit first of all i wanted to wait until
Morning to explain because I didn't have all the details, we were all freaking out and I didn't want to have to come back and add details 20 times.

When DH got home the girls were sitting in the living room, I went In and sat the test on the coffee table, they just gave me a confused stare.
I said "does this belong to one of you?''

They both said no.

So I said "do you know who it belongs too?"

They looked at me, then each other.

Kameron got up and left the room.

We explained to them that if they knew who it belonged to that they needed to tell us.

They still insisted they didn't know

DH was frustrated and left the room.

I told them i wanted them both to take a test.

They seemed upset.

At that point DH yelled for me from the kitchen.

When I walked in kameron handed me an ultra sound...

I wanted to cry.

I asked him how long he had known, he said 2 weeks.

The ultra sound was dated for a week ago, she was 8 weeks in it so she's around 9 now.
The girls already knew too.

He's bringing Alana over after scho today.

).

I asked him when they were]\\\


***££Ok. This whole portion was deleted, damn. I'm not typing all that back out, hold on while I summarize ****££



Ok, basically to summarize what went here; her dad went nuts. She's living with us. She was in the hospital after her blood sugar dropped and was there 5 days. She is now on bed rest and they are afraid she will miscarry and are certain she won't be able to carry full term. She will
Be at the Obgyn monthly and the specialist weekly.
I'm sorry that I deleted so much when I went to add info, I guess I accidentally highlighted and cut this Huge ass portion. If anyone is confused or hasn't been following then you can try readinfg replies or just ask and I will try to answer ASAp ***£££££££££££



We took turns staying withe her since kameron had to work, (practically had to pry him away from her side) and she was terrified to be alone and just scared all around.

They could've had an apartment across town. With pretty low rent. But we all decided it would be beat for them to remain here so that someone can be here to help Alana at all times, and so that is (god forbid) the baby were to have any major problem, we could all be there to help.
We will not be trying to get them to leave anytime soon, after the baby is born we are going to clear out the attic and turn it into a apartment like area for them and they will start to pay us rent, which will raise over time. They can move into a place of their own when they feel it's the right time. But with everything that's been happening i can't even think about sending them out of our home when I know how complicated this could get for them and how serious these risks are.

Some people Will say that I'm being stupid and that we shouldn't let them stay until they feel ready to go.

But I don't care. These risks are serious and dangerous. And they are going to need help.

Also Alana is emancipated due to her pregnancy.

Her dad left a message saying he doesn't want anything to do with her any more. (she took that pretty hard)

I will continue to update on her for those who want to know.

And please, for those who do pray, send out a prayer for Alana and her baby.

Ultrasound page 49


Shit. I added where the ultrasound was and cut our half the damn post. It now makes no sense. Hold on, I'll try to fix it.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:51 PM
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calvinsmommy18
by Gold Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:51 PM
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Ask them.
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PitbullPrincess
by Woof on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:51 PM
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This one was done about two months ago with the twins. 


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:52 PM
Is this a spin off?
Lalalie
by Gold Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:52 PM

Family meeting.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:52 PM

This 


Quoting calvinsmommy18:

Ask them.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:52 PM
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The second pregnancy test in a trashcan that's not yours today? Lol
Isaacsmom913
by Platinum Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:52 PM

Take it to the living room and ask who it belongs too....


mindymay84
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:53 PM
Troll
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Krystle1216
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:53 PM
Ask your children... maybe all together or start with the girls one at a time... could be a friends... but communication is key
TattoodMommy19
by Platinum Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 9:53 PM
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Seen this post, this EXACT post before.

Troll fail.
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