Please understand this isn't for everyone I know many are married or have been with their SO for many years and have children with then. But you all know what I'm talking about. WOMEN WHO JUST DON'T GET IT.
Sure we are all entitled to a mistake or two its life it happens. I don't consider children mistakes by any means but I do know for a fact had I known about dds Bio dad then what I know now its safe to say I wouldn't have had a child with him so soon. Lesson learned.....promise.
I'm not saying you have to be married to a man or have known him since you were kids to make a sound judgement to have babies with him hell I know people who have been married to men for 10+ years and still regret having kids with him.
What I'm talking about is young women just so ready to lay down with the first Guy they see and they're just so in love after meeting some random stranger at a bar that they decide to get pregnant by him right away! Then to make things worse when he leaves you and you're stuck being a single mother you expect everyone to feel sorry for you and you truly act as if you really didn't see that coming.
Again mistakes happen I know......but know the one you're with. And if you happen to make a mistake please learn from it and don't do it again!!!!
I honestly feel sorry for all the young women and old if I knew any that find themselves in this situation repeatedly. No judgements just wishing they could get it through their heads that it really doesn't have to be this hard. All that unnecessary heartache and struggling I feel can be avoided.
Sorry for the vent just hurts me to see it so often....