Shes mad at me for choosing to use the same name as the Baby she miscarried,,,but I don't think I'm in the wrong
We finally settled on a name.
My best friend flipped when i told her the name.
Her: you can NOT use Evelyn.
Me:...what do you mean? That's the name we chose. Of course we can use it. We're naming her after my grandma.
She Started crying and screaming then called me a bitch and stormed off
I called John, her husband to find Out what the hell was going on.
He said that when she had found Out she was pregnant they already had names picked and they chose Evelyn for a girl.
She miscarried at 15 weeks
That was A year and a Half ago.
But she never told me they had already picked names.
My first baby was still born
I understand why she's upset; but I didn't know.
I tried to talk to her and she yelled at me and called me a selfish inconsiderate bitch.
I understand shes hurting but I don't think I did anything wrong or deserve to be treated like this.
I wasn't aware they had picked names. If I had known we wouldn't have gone anywhere near that boundary. But I didn't know, so what was I suppose to do, take every name we liked and run it by her to make sure it was ok?
I know she's hurt, I've been there.
But I don't know what to do now.
I love the name. But I don't want to hurt her even more since now I do know that it's the same name :(