My dh is making a life long commitment without me...
I do agree that we shouldn't have anymore children for a long time, until he finishes school and I start anyways.
He wasn't to get snipped and I think it's a horrible idea. We are so young, what I'd five to ten years down the road we want another baby?
I think we should get something like the meraina(sp?) or something that's long term, but not forever.
Before you ask, our first was an accident, we were young and decided he would just pull out.. Our second was planned. (we can afford our children, we just aren't rich)