i told my husband i was going to start masturbating

[Anonymous]

I HATE double standards.
I dont care if he does, but it does hurt my feelings if he doesnt come to me for sex first.
Hes been doing it a lot. So i told him i was going to start.

Of course, now hes being pissy. He wants to be "enough" for me, but it's not ok for me to want to be "enough" for him, wtf!

Don't even start on me about what's ok in YOUR marriage. This is MY marriage, not yours, and it's ok to be different!!

[Anonymous]

Diddle piddle is peeing.

Quoting Anonymous:

What's good for the goose is good for the gander....right? Yep piddle away!

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

You don't think it's wrong that he thinks it's ok for him, and not me?

Quoting Anonymous:

OMG. Masturbation doesn't always equate to sex. I masturbate at least 3 times a week and it has nothing to do with sex. I've been doing it for years...its a good stress reliever and if he wanted to do it too...good for him! As long as we were still having sex a couple times a week then whatever. I think its controlling and weird when people get mad that their significant other masturbates.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Yes...

Quoting BigMamaMN:

Is he an only child?

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Once a week, if I'm lucky, and recently, he gets off and goes soft before i get my turn!!

Quoting notjstasocermom:

are you still having sex?

[notjstasocermom]

well then get yours during foreplay before he cums

Quoting Anonymous:

Once a week, if I'm lucky, and recently, he gets off and goes soft before i get my turn!!

Quoting notjstasocermom:

are you still having sex?

[Anonymous]

I'm going to get off now thanx for the idea I just realized I haven't got myself off in like 2 weeks.

[BigMamaMN]

Ha! I NAILED IT. :)

i don't think they know how to work/empathize with others as equals to the degree that people with siblings can.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes...

Quoting BigMamaMN:

Is he an only child?

[Anonymous]

seriously why dotn you try masturbating mutually?? ir hand jobs or whatever.. its awesome

[Anonymous]

You guys sound like 4 year olds.

If you won't let me play, I'm going to play all by myself!!  SO THERE, POOPYPANTS!

FFS, let the man have a wank.

[supercarp]

Masturbation is selfish in the sense that you're not doing it for another person, so there's no love involved.If he wants to leave you out of it, I consider that a red flag in a relationship.