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If your husband cheated, what would you do? *EDIT* # 3

Posted by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:18 AM
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I've seen a lot of posts about cheating spouses, but if it really happened what would you do? And I know many will say you will leave, but it's not that easy. A lot of woman have invested their whole lives in 1 man, so put yourself in those shoes. Can you honestly say you would leave in a heart beat, with no questions asked?

*EDIT* what if you were the one that drove your husband to cheat? If you always pushed him away, or would not fulfill him sexually?

*EDIT* so many woman say they will leave, and the husband betrayed their vows, but wouldn't leaving do the same? Isn't it till death do us part?

I've said i do not if i would leave. It would be hard to just give u on my family and marriage.

If you cheated, would you want or expect your husband to forgive you?

*EDIT* For the woman that say there is no reason to cheat, and if the husband needs to get off can maturbate, how would you feel, if you husband was addicted to porn? That the only way he could cum, was by watching porn. Would you leave him? He isn't going outside the marriage. I mean you ladies, that cant or wont give it up, told him to use his hand, so is that ok?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:19 AM
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Cut his balls off with a spoon (it is going to be a long painful process for him)
Jessica_Esqueda
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:20 AM
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Divorce him. Simple!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:20 AM
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 My husband cheated almost 2 years ago.. Before he cheated I would've said I'd leave him, but as you said, it's alot harder than you think.. When it happened it wasn't just his fault.. we were both going through alot at the time.. Now I am in NO way saying what he did was my fault, because that is on him what he did.. But I'm saying that we both had issues we should've came to each other and worked out, and that may have not happened.

 

EDIT- But if it were to happen again, I would leave.

SarahLizyB
by Gold Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:20 AM
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I have no idea. Hopefully I never have to find out

Kaelaasmom
by Katie on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:21 AM
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 I would leave and never look back. My parents would help me until I got back on my feet. I would not accept being disrespected like that.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:21 AM
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It has happen. I decided to stay and work it out. Honestly, it was the right decision for everyone involved. We are better off now and I don't regret my decision.
JerseyAirGurl
by *Ada* on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:21 AM
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I'd def leave.... My friend once explain to me the 80/20 rule... People who stray do so because they find that 20% they are missing in another person but hold on to their 80% they have in their relationship. I never want to be someone's 80%... I need to be that 100%.

*a male friend shared this with me... And some members here have pointed out its from Tyler Perry's Why Did I Get Married.

"Calm your tits... It's not that serious."
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:22 AM
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I'm not going anywhere. He's already cheated about 7yrs ago and we've moved on from it and we're better now than ever. Leaving is easy, staying and working it out and fighting for your marriage is hard as hell, but so worth it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:22 AM
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It would hurt but I would have to leave. Everything I thought I knew about him would be a lie.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:22 AM
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Id jump for joy. Then I would have a valid reason to leave
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