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If you where raped and got pregnant, would you keep the baby? Why, why not

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by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:30 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:41 AM
where..... WERE
ARmomOf3
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:42 AM


Quoting DayDreamer1201:

No. I would put the child up for adoption. It was not my decision that got me pregnant but the child doesnt have to die...


Jessica_Esqueda
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:42 AM

A lot of my decision would depend on details. Like if my rapist was white or hispanic, I'd probably keep it. I wouldn't want one child to be totally different from my other kids and have them be aware of their beginnings... 

Quoting ksueditz:

This. I know I would carry it, but I can't say w/ certainty that I would keep it.


Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:

I would carry the pregnancy, and may or may not keep the baby. 





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Ealane2011
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:42 AM
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The baby would still be part of me. So no, I wouldn't abort or give it up for adoption.
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ksueditz
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:42 AM
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I'm sorry that was how she was created but happy she has you for a mother.


Quoting summerbear:

*were



Yes. It makes something beautiful out of something horrible. I have kept my rape baby and she was the best thing that ever happened!

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haunted.mommy
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:43 AM
I would have it.
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Tatiana7
by Gold Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:43 AM
If I was raped, the chances of pregnancy would be slim. I'm fixed and had one ovary removed due to a large dermatoid cyst. I would ask for the morning after pill and I'd be more worried about the STD panel then becoming pregnant.
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lil_momma_vdv
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:43 AM
Can you afford a baby?


Quoting Anonymous:

I am keeping the baby.

I can't afford an abortion.


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:44 AM
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I did.

He is an awesome kid and I couldn't imagine my life without him.

He reminds me everyday that even the worst circumstances can bring forth amazing things if you are open to it.

lil_momma_vdv
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:45 AM
Thank you appreciate your attention to detail.


Quoting Anonymous:

where.....

WERE

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