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Giving him up for adoption...

Posted by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:41 AM
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Look at that face I could NEVER give him up. People who give their children up for adoption are in my opinion some of the bravest people ever. I couldn't imagine carrying him for 9 months and then giving him up. My heart breaks for those people. Not everyone can take care of them and need to do what's best for them but that doesn't make it hurt any less.
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atyou
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:43 AM
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Bet you could if you knew in your heart it's what's best for him.


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SunshineBird
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:45 AM
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He's beautiful! And, yes, I agree. It takes a strong person to place their child into an adoptive home. I am very thankful that my mom's bio mother placed her rather than the alternative. 

kaiser10123
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:46 AM
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Nope! Giving him my all and at least trying is what I would do. I would have to be homeless and living on the streets before I would even "consider" the idea.

Quoting atyou:

Bet you could if you knew in your heart it's what's best for him.





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kaiser10123
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:47 AM
Thank you

Quoting SunshineBird:

He's beautiful! And, yes, I agree. It takes a strong person to place their child into an adoptive home. I am very thankful that my mom's bio mother placed her rather than the alternative. 

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atyou
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:47 AM
Um. Exactly. Bet if you knew it's what's best you could.

Quoting kaiser10123:

Nope! Giving him my all and at least trying is what I would do. I would have to be homeless and living on the streets before I would even "consider" the idea.



Quoting atyou:

Bet you could if you knew in your heart it's what's best for him.








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kaiser10123
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:49 AM
I guess but I would die without him :(

Quoting atyou:

Um. Exactly. Bet if you knew it's what's best you could.



Quoting kaiser10123:

Nope! Giving him my all and at least trying is what I would do. I would have to be homeless and living on the streets before I would even "consider" the idea.





Quoting atyou:

Bet you could if you knew in your heart it's what's best for him.











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Devious333
by Ruby Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:50 AM
It takes a selfless person do adopt out a baby...very few people are like that.
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atyou
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:50 AM
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No, you wouldn't. You'd get your shit together.

Quoting kaiser10123:

I guess but I would die without him :(



Quoting atyou:

Um. Exactly. Bet if you knew it's what's best you could.





Quoting kaiser10123:

Nope! Giving him my all and at least trying is what I would do. I would have to be homeless and living on the streets before I would even "consider" the idea.







Quoting atyou:

Bet you could if you knew in your heart it's what's best for him.














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hotmomofmakayla
by Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:51 AM

As a person who was put up for Adoption and as a child who was adopted. I know the reason why my bio did(her nerves where to bad to handle me)but I got lucky my birth mom's sister adopted me. So I am glad I got to stay in the family. I don't blame my birth mom for doing that to me. I know as a mother now I could do that cause my parents are there to help me with her when I need help. Cause her POS sperm donor only cares about himself. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:52 AM
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some cases it takes a brave person to keep the child as well such as if youve been raped and your a single mom like i was . i kept him.. hard choice but i did it  wasnt his fault his dads a loser

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