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Caught DH.....

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Walked in on DH mastubating this morning. What did I do? I made sure the kids were happy and busy in the living room and I gave him a bj!! That's what a normal person would do. I don't understand these women that freak out if they catch their DH, bf etc. jerking it!! I mean we're all adults you are sleeping with him, why are you bothered by him doing this?

And before you say he's jerking it cuz I'm not satisfying him, it's true it's my fault. I got him all hot and bothered last night then got sick from something I ate and he got nothing, so I made up for it this morning.


Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 23, 2013 at 7:26 PM
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zomgkerrie
by Geek Goddess on Jan. 23, 2013 at 9:28 PM

this was in the very beginning when I found out I was pregnant and he just assumed that I wouldn't feel well at times.

Quoting Anonymous:

But you said in your first post that your ex said he would do it if you were tired or didn't feel well. That sounds like you weren't always available and if you were he was being considerate and not asking you to if you were to sick or tired...

Quoting zomgkerrie:

to me, he is still getting his sexual pleasure from someone other than myself. I am available whenever he needs. If he is choosing something other than me, I find that hurtful.

Quoting Anonymous:

But isn't it better that he use his hand and not another women?



Quoting zomgkerrie:

I respect everyones opinion. My personal one is that it is not ok. I do feel it is cheating. I actually left my sons' father over this. He told me that if I was tired or didn't feel well during my pregnancy that he would just go ahead and do it anyways. I felt I deserved more respect and to feel more attractive in someone's eyes than that. Again, my opinion :)






Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 23, 2013 at 9:32 PM
I'm sorry but you just seem a little crazy with all that... That's a decently good assumption. He let you know if you are too sick or too tired I will take care of mysef. That's a GOOD GUY!

Quoting zomgkerrie:

this was in the very beginning when I found out I was pregnant and he just assumed that I wouldn't feel well at times.

Quoting Anonymous:

But you said in your first post that your ex said he would do it if you were tired or didn't feel well. That sounds like you weren't always available and if you were he was being considerate and not asking you to if you were to sick or tired...



Quoting zomgkerrie:

to me, he is still getting his sexual pleasure from someone other than myself. I am available whenever he needs. If he is choosing something other than me, I find that hurtful.

Quoting Anonymous:

But isn't it better that he use his hand and not another women?




Quoting zomgkerrie:

I respect everyones opinion. My personal one is that it is not ok. I do feel it is cheating. I actually left my sons' father over this. He told me that if I was tired or didn't feel well during my pregnancy that he would just go ahead and do it anyways. I felt I deserved more respect and to feel more attractive in someone's eyes than that. Again, my opinion :)







zomgkerrie
by Geek Goddess on Jan. 23, 2013 at 9:36 PM

like I said, this is my personal feelings and opinion. To think of that was incredibly hurtful, and I did not like being made to feel that way. I think a good guy would understand that. Just my thoughts :)

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry but you just seem a little crazy with all that... That's a decently good assumption. He let you know if you are too sick or too tired I will take care of mysef. That's a GOOD GUY!

Quoting zomgkerrie:

this was in the very beginning when I found out I was pregnant and he just assumed that I wouldn't feel well at times.

Quoting Anonymous:

But you said in your first post that your ex said he would do it if you were tired or didn't feel well. That sounds like you weren't always available and if you were he was being considerate and not asking you to if you were to sick or tired...



Quoting zomgkerrie:

to me, he is still getting his sexual pleasure from someone other than myself. I am available whenever he needs. If he is choosing something other than me, I find that hurtful.

Quoting Anonymous:

But isn't it better that he use his hand and not another women?




Quoting zomgkerrie:

I respect everyones opinion. My personal one is that it is not ok. I do feel it is cheating. I actually left my sons' father over this. He told me that if I was tired or didn't feel well during my pregnancy that he would just go ahead and do it anyways. I felt I deserved more respect and to feel more attractive in someone's eyes than that. Again, my opinion :)








Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 23, 2013 at 9:37 PM
I walked in on my ex jerking it with one of my thongs over his face. I walked right back out, trying not to laugh.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 23, 2013 at 9:39 PM
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It sucks you felt that way and he wouldn't deal with that:).. I would feel differently if it were my hubby but understand you were hurt by it..

Quoting zomgkerrie:

like I said, this is my personal feelings and opinion. To think of that was incredibly hurtful, and I did not like being made to feel that way. I think a good guy would understand that. Just my thoughts :)

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry but you just seem a little crazy with all that... That's a decently good assumption. He let you know if you are too sick or too tired I will take care of mysef. That's a GOOD GUY!



Quoting zomgkerrie:

this was in the very beginning when I found out I was pregnant and he just assumed that I wouldn't feel well at times.

Quoting Anonymous:

But you said in your first post that your ex said he would do it if you were tired or didn't feel well. That sounds like you weren't always available and if you were he was being considerate and not asking you to if you were to sick or tired...





Quoting zomgkerrie:

to me, he is still getting his sexual pleasure from someone other than myself. I am available whenever he needs. If he is choosing something other than me, I find that hurtful.

Quoting Anonymous:

But isn't it better that he use his hand and not another women?





Quoting zomgkerrie:

I respect everyones opinion. My personal one is that it is not ok. I do feel it is cheating. I actually left my sons' father over this. He told me that if I was tired or didn't feel well during my pregnancy that he would just go ahead and do it anyways. I felt I deserved more respect and to feel more attractive in someone's eyes than that. Again, my opinion :)









Jennyanne322
by Platinum Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 9:40 PM
When he showers. SO does it then most of the time.

Quoting PEEK05:

I swear my husband must wake up at like 4 a.m. to masturbate or something because I have never caught him and he says he does it on a daily basis, on average! What the hell dude? When do you have the time??? He leaves for work at 6:30 a.m. and doesn't get back until 6:30 p.m., he bathes the kids and puts them to bed by 7:45 and we stay up together until 11 when we go to sleep.

Quoting SuperHumanC:

 I am sure my SO does it but I have yet to catch him! (sneaky bastard! LOL ) But, if I did ... I'd probably do the same thing. Why not?


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Jennyanne322
by Platinum Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 9:41 PM
I agree with you completely. I don't get why women get mad at this, porn, or a strip club.
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helema24
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 9:47 PM

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SuperHumanC
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 11:55 AM

 AGREED! :)

Quoting PEEK05:

Oh true, I didn't think of that either! I bet that's when he does it.  We don't take showers together because he likes his practically cold and mine needs to leave my skin red or I can't tolerate it lol!

I would love to catch him, big turn on for me. ;)

Quoting SuperHumanC:

 Girrrrrl he just might be! Guys are sneaky like that! OHHHH maybe in the shower? I didn't think about that.

Quoting PEEK05:

I swear my husband must wake up at like 4 a.m. to masturbate or something because I have never caught him and he says he does it on a daily basis, on average! What the hell dude? When do you have the time??? He leaves for work at 6:30 a.m. and doesn't get back until 6:30 p.m., he bathes the kids and puts them to bed by 7:45 and we stay up together until 11 when we go to sleep.

Quoting SuperHumanC:

 I am sure my SO does it but I have yet to catch him! (sneaky bastard! LOL ) But, if I did ... I'd probably do the same thing. Why not?


 


 

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