Lose weight or I am leaving? My friend is 5'1, 150 lbs. Yes she is a bit over the "ideal" weight for her height, but she is not fat. She looks good. Her bf of two years told her to loose 50 lbs in 6 months or he is leaving. She does not feel she needs to loose, she is happy with her curves. Again she is not sloppy jiggly fat. More what you would call thick. But she is dieting and taking otc weight loss pills because she doesn't want to loose him. Now I told her she should just drop him, that if he really loved her he would never say that. What would you do?