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I almost killed him (more added)

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My husband and I had a friend change our brakes today. Well why he was doing my car cause I got my brakes and rotors earlier in the week. we went to get the trucks brakes and rotors. I run in to go get the stuff. As I am waiting here walks in my 5 year old in a different door then i entered. I asked where is daddy cause he looks upset. He says he doesn't know. As the guy is coming back here comes my hubby. I give him a look and he sees our son he just stares at me. He knows he is in deep shit. We get back to the truck and I loose it. I asked him what the fuck happened. He told me there was some other stuff he needed and our son was throwing a fit so he left him in the truck. So our 5 year old went looking for us and thank god he found me or god knows where he would have ended up. I back hand him so quick, and hard I busted his lip. I told him if he ever, ever pulled shit like that again the cops would find him dead with his balls down his throat. (yes this was wrong!!!) He is sleeping in the livingroom on the floor tonight and possibly for a week. Why my sweet boy is sleeping next to me.

Let me add my hormones are ragging I am pregnant. This has been one hell of a pregnancy. I get little to no sleep a night.

We went to see out usual mechanic he use to work down the road from our house but left because the shop was not getting much work and the manager started to be an ass. So we took the truck and car to his house. We have been to that city before just not that area.

Yes I know what I did was wrong. Later I told him I was sorry. And no I don't not abuse my son. I was abused as a child and would never treat my son they way I was treated. My son goes to the corner, to bed, or on occasion when absolutely needed he will be spanked (this is a rare event).
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 3:35 AM
Replies (101-108):
by Anonymous 26 on Jan. 24, 2013 at 1:29 PM
You don't not abuse your son?
by Anonymous 27 on Jan. 24, 2013 at 1:30 PM
Good god. You need serious help. Yes dh wasn't thinking but that gives you NO FUCKING RIGHT to hit him! Then your crazy bitch ass makes him sleep on the floor. Your kid is going to have so many freaking issues.
by Anonymous 28 on Jan. 24, 2013 at 1:32 PM

He should call the cop and have you arrested. You cant use pregnancy as an excuse to hit people. He should also divorce your crazy ass and get full custody of all the kids. You need help and BIG time. 

by Anonymous 28 on Jan. 24, 2013 at 1:37 PM

Quoting Anonymous:

I admit hitting him was wrong. But we were in a different city somewhere we had never been and all I was thinking was what if....
He couldn't find me
He fell into the street
Someone saw him alone and grabbed him
I never got to see my baby again because he couldn't wait till I came out

Youre an idiot. A 5yr old should KNOW better then to get out of a car when told not to. YOU are horrible. You need to get some help. I dont buy it that you dont sbuse your son if you snap like that and haul off and hit your husband hard enough to split his lip. You are a monster. You dont need to be having kids. 

by Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 1:41 PM

I know you came here for something different than what you are getting, but you must know that nobody here is going to say it's okay to hit your husband. Ever. And especially not in front of your son.  You keep saying you know it was wrong but would that be enough for you if your husband had back-handed you in the heat of anger?  Pregnant or not, you must always control the urge to be physially violent. Especially if you were abused as a child. I was too.  Did you ever seek counseling for it?

I know when our children are put in danger it causes us to react like Mama Bear. Thing is, while your son was alone for a few moments, he wasn't really in any danger. Nothing bad happened, he didn't wander, he came looking for you. Your husband was wrong for leaving the child alone in a strange place, but not nearly as wrong as your reaction.

I hope you guys get this figured out.

by Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 1:44 PM

But wait, let me say one more thing. 

You women going off, calling her crazy ass bitch, saying her husband needs to divorce her, blah blah blah, really need to get a damn grip.  SHE WAS WRONG. Yes, we all know that.  One instance of a bad decision does not an abuser make. She came here looking for, maybe not support, but at least someone to say there is hope for her yet?  IDK, really. But you guys are WAY out of line with the trash talking.  Take that shit to ya-hoo

by Anonymous 29 on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:42 PM

You sound like a crazy bitch with issues

by ~Tammie~ on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:44 PM

O.o you back hand me and someone is going to jail! im surprised your husband took that.

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