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I almost killed him (more added)

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My husband and I had a friend change our brakes today. Well why he was doing my car cause I got my brakes and rotors earlier in the week. we went to get the trucks brakes and rotors. I run in to go get the stuff. As I am waiting here walks in my 5 year old in a different door then i entered. I asked where is daddy cause he looks upset. He says he doesn't know. As the guy is coming back here comes my hubby. I give him a look and he sees our son he just stares at me. He knows he is in deep shit. We get back to the truck and I loose it. I asked him what the fuck happened. He told me there was some other stuff he needed and our son was throwing a fit so he left him in the truck. So our 5 year old went looking for us and thank god he found me or god knows where he would have ended up. I back hand him so quick, and hard I busted his lip. I told him if he ever, ever pulled shit like that again the cops would find him dead with his balls down his throat. (yes this was wrong!!!) He is sleeping in the livingroom on the floor tonight and possibly for a week. Why my sweet boy is sleeping next to me.


Let me add my hormones are ragging I am pregnant. This has been one hell of a pregnancy. I get little to no sleep a night.

We went to see out usual mechanic he use to work down the road from our house but left because the shop was not getting much work and the manager started to be an ass. So we took the truck and car to his house. We have been to that city before just not that area.

Yes I know what I did was wrong. Later I told him I was sorry. And no I don't not abuse my son. I was abused as a child and would never treat my son they way I was treated. My son goes to the corner, to bed, or on occasion when absolutely needed he will be spanked (this is a rare event).
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 3:35 AM
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mommyof11050307
by Platinum Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:11 AM
You hope it will your las wtf?!?!!! Because your pregnant its okay for him not to hit you back yeah okay justify it in your head like that. If you hit someone you deserve to be hit back pregnant or not. You hitting him was worse then him hitting you in self defense.


Quoting Anonymous:

It is the first time and I hope the last. My husband would not lay me out as you put it. I think him hitting his pregnant wife would be worse. I am not saying what I did was okay but hitting a pregnant women would be the topping on the cake.



Quoting mommyof11050307:

Wtf you back handed him??? I'm sure this isn't the first time you've done something like that. What he did was wrong but what you did was worse. Had I did that to my husband he would have laid my ass out. You need anger management.

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barrelracer1699
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:12 AM

 Pregnant or not, I feel if a woman hits a man they have every right to hit her back. Glad your son is ok. It was no ok for you to hit your husband. You HOPE it is the last? It shouldn't have happened in the first place.


Quoting Anonymous:

It is the first time and I hope the last. My husband would not lay me out as you put it. I think him hitting his pregnant wife would be worse. I am not saying what I did was okay but hitting a pregnant women would be the topping on the cake.

Quoting mommyof11050307:

Wtf you back handed him??? I'm sure this isn't the first time you've done something like that. What he did was wrong but what you did was worse. Had I did that to my husband he would have laid my ass out. You need anger management.


 

mommyof11050307
by Platinum Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:13 AM
Justifying hitting him because your pregnant is an excuse. I had had hormones with my daughter and my husband did shirt things but I would never hit my husband. You need help with your anger management.
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babyboy117
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:14 AM

 it's cool. You shouldprobaly tell hubby you are sorry though. Even though what he did was irresponsible.

Quoting Anonymous:

Sorry I have pregnancy insomnia and it's 2 am. I have been up since 7. so have been up way too long.

Quoting babyboy117:

I feel like I just read a huge run on sentence.

 

GirlWithANikon
by Platinum Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:15 AM

Youre fucking nuts.

Teach the kid not to wonder though. In the event he is actually lost he will become more lost and you won't find him because he is looking north but you are screaming south and the police went west and dh is driving east the kid is just walking further and further away looking on his own. That wasnt bashing thats literally what I tell my 4 year old. Plus in this case it was probably better he had stayed put he would have  been "found" since he wasnt lost and your dh wouldnt be physically abused and regretting marrying you. Which is also not bashing, I am sure he is honestly feeling that way.

Good luck, glad your bug is ok. I dont leave my kids in the car either.

GirlWithANikon
by Platinum Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:17 AM
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What!? Where can I buy this cake iced in beautfuil crazy? Thats not called topping its called self defense a crazy woman threating him busted his lip so he instinctively swung and baked up.


Wow, I hope you are soooooo thankful for how much that man must love you. He gave up his bride, his balls, and his right to personal safety to marry and have children with you.


Quoting Anonymous:

It is the first time and I hope the last. My husband would not lay me out as you put it. I think him hitting his pregnant wife would be worse. I am not saying what I did was okay but hitting a pregnant women would be the topping on the cake.

Quoting mommyof11050307:

Wtf you back handed him??? I'm sure this isn't the first time you've done something like that. What he did was wrong but what you did was worse. Had I did that to my husband he would have laid my ass out. You need anger management.



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:17 AM
I did. we have been through a lot with this pregnancy. so he said he understood that it was a heat of the moment type of situation. I have never hit him before (beside accident) and don't plan on ever doing it again.

Quoting babyboy117:

 it's cool. You shouldprobaly tell hubby you are sorry though. Even though what he did was irresponsible.


Quoting Anonymous:

Sorry I have pregnancy insomnia and it's 2 am. I have been up since 7. so have been up way too long.


Quoting babyboy117:


I feel like I just read a huge run on sentence.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:19 AM
I am thankful. These pasted few months I don't know how he has been able to deal with my craziness. And we still got a ways to go.

Quoting GirlWithANikon:

What!? Where can I buy this cake iced in beautfuil crazy? Thats not called topping its called self defense a crazy woman threating him busted his lip so he instinctively swung and baked up.


Wow, I hope you are soooooo thankful for how much that man must love you. He gave up his bride, his balls, and his right to personal safety to marry and have children with you.



Quoting Anonymous:

It is the first time and I hope the last. My husband would not lay me out as you put it. I think him hitting his pregnant wife would be worse. I am not saying what I did was okay but hitting a pregnant women would be the topping on the cake.



Quoting mommyof11050307:

Wtf you back handed him??? I'm sure this isn't the first time you've done something like that. What he did was wrong but what you did was worse. Had I did that to my husband he would have laid my ass out. You need anger management.




babyboy117
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:20 AM

 I'm glad to hear that. Atleast you relize it's wrong. ((HUGS))  Hope you two can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy peacefully.

Quoting Anonymous:

I did. we have been through a lot with this pregnancy. so he said he understood that it was a heat of the moment type of situation. I have never hit him before (beside accident) and don't plan on ever doing it again.

Quoting babyboy117:

 it's cool. You shouldprobaly tell hubby you are sorry though. Even though what he did was irresponsible.


Quoting Anonymous:

Sorry I have pregnancy insomnia and it's 2 am. I have been up since 7. so have been up way too long.


Quoting babyboy117:


I feel like I just read a huge run on sentence.


 

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 5:25 AM
Yes we had that discussion on our ride home. Next time just stay there. I am sure he doesnt regret marrying me. I was wrong, it was a mistake. But what I did was nothing compared to some of his exs.

Quoting GirlWithANikon:

Youre fucking nuts.

Teach the kid not to wonder though. In the event he is actually lost he will become more lost and you won't find him because he is looking north but you are screaming south and the police went west and dh is driving east the kid is just walking further and further away looking on his own. That wasnt bashing thats literally what I tell my 4 year old. Plus in this case it was probably better he had stayed put he would have  been "found" since he wasnt lost and your dh wouldnt be physically abused and regretting marrying you. Which is also not bashing, I am sure he is honestly feeling that way.

Good luck, glad your bug is ok. I dont leave my kids in the car either.

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