Husbands jacking off

[Anonymous]

How would u feel if u woke up and 15 min after going to bed and you could hear your SO in the bathroom jacking off?

I could hear the toilet hitting the wall. I assume he was using it for balance.

I was in bed. If he was horny he could have come to me. I don't have to have foreplay. He could have just rolled me over and fucked me. I feel like maybe I'm not what he wants anymore.

[danie24]

Do you honestly never masturbate?

He probably didn't want to disturb you. You're over reacting.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

No I honestly don't. It just makes me wonder how many other times he does it. Sometimes I want to have sex and he turns me down.

Quoting danie24:

Do you honestly never masturbate?



He probably didn't want to disturb you. You're over reacting.

[damionsmama7195]

i tell him to go masterbate. I'm 8 Months preggers, so i don't feel like giving it up all the time. So, when he's in the mood, i leave the bedroom and shut the door to give him privacy. He texts me when he's done and i then go to bed i him.

[PitbullPrincess]

It's just masterbation, not a putdown to your desirability.

[Abby.N.Amys.Mom]

Sometimes it's easier and quicker to do it yourself.  I don't always want to have sex and I know my husband is the same way.  As long as it wasn't interfering in our sex life and we were having sex on a regular basis, it wouldn't bother me.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I just think it would be different if I turned him down but I was willing.

Quoting PitbullPrincess:

It's just masterbation, not a putdown to your desirability.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he was taking a mean shit.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes it just feels good to rub one out.

[DazeDelights]

Stop being insecure. He just wanted a quick shoot. Maybe he was being thoughtful

[mcwife86]

he was just jerkin off. don't be so emotional abt it. rubbin one out is a lot less work than sex and he prob was too tired to want to have sex but was horny and couldn't sleep. chill.