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Husbands jacking off

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How would u feel if u woke up and 15 min after going to bed and you could hear your SO in the bathroom jacking off?

I could hear the toilet hitting the wall. I assume he was using it for balance.

I was in bed. If he was horny he could have come to me. I don't have to have foreplay. He could have just rolled me over and fucked me. I feel like maybe I'm not what he wants anymore.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 9:26 AM
Replies (41-48):
TrouserMouse
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 9:54 AM

 Why do people take masturbation so personally? 

MommaTasha1003
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 9:58 AM

Sometimes you just want to let one off... Its not "always about you"...

Talk to him about his feelings for you, but dont blow up on a guy for touching HIS OWN weiner!

momsince04
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:00 AM
I agree with you. I hate that I have heard him do it. I'm right there, and I am the type that, if you want to try something new, kinky or whatever just ask. Granted I'm sure there will be something I won't want to do, but if I'm there willing and wanting sex from you, why jerk off. I told him after I have the baby he will be cut off for a while, but there are other things I can do for him, and if he wants to still jerk off I better not hear or find out.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:00 AM
I probably won't say anything.

Quoting MommaTasha1003:

Sometimes you just want to let one off... Its not "always about you"...

Talk to him about his feelings for you, but dont blow up on a guy for touching HIS OWN weiner!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:33 AM
Even when sleeping? Lol I am sure he just wanted a quick release. It has nothing to do with how desirable you are or aren't.

Quoting Anonymous:

No I didn't know what to do. Lol. And he knows I'm always willing.



Quoting Anonymous:

Did you go in there and say hey let me help? Or let's have sex instead? If not how did he know you'd be willing?





Quoting Anonymous:

I just think it would be different if I turned him down but I was willing.







Quoting PitbullPrincess:

It's just masterbation, not a putdown to your desirability.

randi1978
by Murdoc's Mistress on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:35 AM

Sometimes, a good wank is all one needs.  Basically stress relief without the work of sex.

Don't take offense to it.  It has nothing to do with you.

randi1978
by Murdoc's Mistress on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:36 AM

I wonder the same thing.  I swear it feeds into the archaic mentality of "if you wank, your partner must not be good enough".  Not true. 

Quoting TrouserMouse:

 Why do people take masturbation so personally? 


MommyLehr
by Veronica on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:41 AM
My husband masturbates all the time. It doesn't mean he doesn't want sex with me.
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