I Wish People Would Leave Me Alone About My Weight!
Seriously. I am not morbidly obese or anything. I might be *Obese* by medical standards but I am not THAT overweight.
I am 5 ft 3 and I weigh 173lbs. That is about 30-35ish pounds overweight. It's not as if I am 300lbs.
Yet my family seems to think I am! They keep telling me to lose weight, women are not supposed to look this way, blah blah blah.
IDGAF what they think. I don't have a boyfriend. I am not interested in dating right now. I have no one to look good for. Why the fuck would I care?
When I CHOOSE to lose the weight, when I WANT to, I will. I have done it before. I was this heavy before and I lost the weight all on my own. No exercise, surprisingly. I did it by cutting all fast food out of my diet, all pop and by not eating a big meal for dinner just a couple hours before I went to bed.
I can do it again and I have no doubt I can do it again. I just don't WANT to right now. That is my business if I don't want to. Not anyone else's.
And it's not because they are concerned about my health. That is the least of their concerns. It's because they just don't think women should be fat.
Right now, my weight does not adhere me in any way. I have stayed the same weight for 3 years. It does not affect my job performance, daily activities, anything like that.
I just wish they would understand that I will do it on MY time. I will not do it for anyone else. I will do it for ME when I choose to.