My friend and I have known each other for over 5 years. For as long as she can remember, doctors told her that she wasn't able to get pregnant......something having to do with her cervix.....or ovaries. I'm not sure.
Anyhow........she got together with her, now, husband and they got pregnant. I thought that, right there, was a miracle.
So all throughout her pregnancy she was telling me how she was going to breastfeed.
Her and her husband don't have a lot of money since they take care of her step daughter and her younger sister.
She has a big family and her family is there for support and we gave her a baby shower and she got a lot of nice things for the baby. And her family helps her out when they can. They bought her things for the baby throughout her pregnancy.
I told her since my son is 7 months old that I would give her his clothes since she was having a baby boy.
Well she had her baby last week.
This is the part that pisses me off, not only did she smoke throughout her entire pregnancy but as soon as she got home from the hospital she put her son on formula.
She breastfed while in the hospital telling me she was going to continue breastfeeding when she was home.
Nothing is wrong with her or the baby that would cause her to stop. Nothing!! They are totally healthy.
I never once said a word to her about how much I'm against pregnant women who smoke and women who decide to formula feed just because they want to.
I don't plan on telling her. Like I said in my title I try really hard not to judge but this whole thing just pisses me off!!
The thing that is really sad is this is her MIRACLE baby and this is the shit she is doing to him. If I had a miracle baby, I would take the extra step to make sure that he would be as healthy as possible. Because she smoked throughout her pregnancy, now there's a high risk of that baby having asthma.
I'm so pissed at her, not only will I NOT give her my sons clothes, but I refuse to be her friend any longer!! She doesn't deserve it because she is selfish!!