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YOU DRUNK!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Does a mom deserve to be taken to court to be granted LESS time if she is out at the bars 3-4 nights a week almost EVERY week. Custody is 50/50 but dad wants stability before his dd starts school is sept. so he wants his dd every week and one weekend a month, seeing as he has her that much anyways because her mom is out all the time.

Plus the dd is almost 4 and says mommy sleeps to much and mommy drinks to much???

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 7:40 PM
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sugarcrisp
by Ruby Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 7:44 PM

If this is TRULY the case, then yes.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 7:44 PM

He has proof for every night shes at the bars


Quoting Anonymous:

If that is the case then yes, DD should be with dad if he's stable and not drunk or on drugs. However, if dad is exaggerating mom's issue or making it up then no it should stay how it is.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 24, 2013 at 7:46 PM
Yes. The child needs stability. If you two can offer that than do it.

Quoting Anonymous:

Is giving her 3 weekends a month reasonable?



Quoting Anonymous:

Absolutely




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 7:49 PM

And we can her mom has had 10 houses in 3 year and about 6 jobs plus her husband has had 5 new jobs in the last 6 months. Im a SAHM to my dd and my husband has a great job and we own our home.


Quoting Anonymous:

Yes. The child needs stability. If you two can offer that than do it.

Quoting Anonymous:

Is giving her 3 weekends a month reasonable?



Quoting Anonymous:

Absolutely






kfroz0415
by Gold Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 7:54 PM
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From what is stated up there, yeah she deserves to have her visitation shortened. If she is either out or "sleeping it off" she isn't tending to her child anyway. 

Sounds like the dad is already primary caregiver anyway, might as well make it official.  

tarakay0417
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 7:55 PM
Yep.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 8:03 PM

He has already got the custody battle underway

Quoting kfroz0415:

From what is stated up there, yeah she deserves to have her visitation shortened. If she is either out or "sleeping it off" she isn't tending to her child anyway. 

Sounds like the dad is already primary caregiver anyway, might as well make it official.  



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 12:04 AM

BUMP!

RLT2
by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 12:05 AM

yup, totally reasonable

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:16 AM

bump

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